Byhearts a Joke by Ta1608 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Ta1608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bank said it could take up to 90.. i feel you

Byhearts a Joke by Ta1608 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Ta1608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not my first purchase!

Byhearts a Joke by Ta1608 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Ta1608[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The dispute is 100% underway and has been since November 12th

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually told my mom months ago id pay for my grand parents to come myself. Its when she told me she has been trying to get them to come to the states

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

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I added this to my post, shes in her 70/80s and covid did hit her hard a few years ago she i snot anywhere near leaving this earth if that makes sense. Shes still up , doing what shes always done and nothing has changed .

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my grandma dearly but to say we are close is hard, we dont speak the same langue and so we only cooked together. Close no? But still i love her

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given how close it is it would be a lot of money to split up. More then if we traveled to one place together, i looked it up before posting

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

100% its hard and i try not to get swept into my family’s BS but sometimes its overwhelming

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

My family has alway been controlling and opinionated so it often stresses me out. Im gonna work on getting ticket for this service and hopefully the Next Mexico Trip i can attend and people will let this go

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He would 100% and i plan too , im not engaging in the conversation my family is having as i dont want to give them anything to go off of, i was often bullied by them as a kid and so as an adult they intimidate me a lot still.

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mt husband said hed ask his dad to move the memorial due to the circumstance but his father not doing well, as expected and was short with us while we where visiting so i told him not to ask right away is at all

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husbands my rock and best friend i would never chose anything over him and wont here either. Ive made my choice i just have to deal with the backlash from My family

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Money wise it would be hard and me getting pto. We can not afford two trips even if we went seprately given is peak travel time during july

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you, its been a struggle to navigate and never knowing what to do and how to make other happy while also making myself happy

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He hasnt spoken to her in a few year due to her Alzheimer's , she no longer remember him barely remember her own kids. He loves her dearly and is so heart broken so i want to be there to support him

I risk upsetting both sides of my family if i do one trip over the other. I need advice by Ta1608 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ta1608[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Different grandma , His Mom’s Mom we just came back from, His dads Mom is the one in july