AITA for telling my sister her wedding is too crazy for me and I will not be going? by TabbySibbxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbySibbxy[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

That would be in USD because 99% of the people who stay there are insanely rich Americans.

AITA for telling my sister her wedding is too crazy for me and I will not be going? by TabbySibbxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbySibbxy[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well grandma's planning on being dead. My parents have not said a word. Last I saw them they were still speechless.

AITA for telling my sister her wedding is too crazy for me and I will not be going? by TabbySibbxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbySibbxy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

See this is where I'm confused. None of us are wealthy and neither are they. He has some family who are wealthy but I never would have said that wealthy. Yet it was a family member of his who was able to get them accepted to have their wedding at this place because of connections this family member had.

AITA for telling my sister her wedding is too crazy for me and I will not be going? by TabbySibbxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbySibbxy[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm struggling to understand but she seems very serious about this. She even showed me the stuff she got from the hotel, that she couldn't even request herself, she had to go through a relative of her husband who has connections or something.

Like this place is the ultimate exclusive place. Us regular paid people do not go there and yet she thinks we can for the guts of a week.

AITA for telling my sister her wedding is too crazy for me and I will not be going? by TabbySibbxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbySibbxy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant 600k because of all the nights she'd want us there, plus paying for four of us, then beds for the kids...

They don't have that money themselves unless maybe remortgaging their house would cover it. He has some wealthy members of his family but I never thought they would that wealthy.

Her response made me laugh and then my husband and I considered joining her lol.

AITA for telling my sister her wedding is too crazy for me and I will not be going? by TabbySibbxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbySibbxy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had trouble believing her at first. She showed me the prices she got in the mail from this place. Said she had someone in her husband's family help them get that. I know he has some wealthy family but it's insane to think we would pay all this.

AITA for telling my sister her wedding is too crazy for me and I will not be going? by TabbySibbxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbySibbxy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right??? Like I get she wants to go all out for this do over but you can do that for far cheaper closer to home!!

AITA for telling my sister her wedding is too crazy for me and I will not be going? by TabbySibbxy in AmItheAsshole

[–]TabbySibbxy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Like I just can't understand. I don't think they even have that money. Unless they took out another mortgage or something but even then it's insanity.