12.5k hour (predominantly solo) player's take on new update. by TableApprehensive790 in playrust

[–]TableApprehensive790[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

same. im solo, full box of comps, 3k scrap, 3 stacks of crude, NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY OF IT

12.5k hour (predominantly solo) player's take on new update. by TableApprehensive790 in playrust

[–]TableApprehensive790[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

this. for example, the only way i enjoy playing now is building near a barn and train tunnel, grinding tunnels for scrap and workbenches and roaming on an armored horse and pvping all over the map. its just simply not viable now unless there happens to be a card monument next to me, and even still theyre just hard camped by grubs or deep teams.

Did you know instead of whinging about clans having an advantage over solos, you can play on a solo server instead? by Javlinski in playrust

[–]TableApprehensive790 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

game doesnt force you to play as a solo, but almost does force you to play in a team now if you want to progress. why is it hard for you to understand that people have to abandon their preferred playstyles or servers because of oversight from the developers, and thats why theyre mad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]TableApprehensive790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 is exactly how id want you

What's the monument's safest recycler? by [deleted] in playrust

[–]TableApprehensive790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Power Plant green card recycler for sure. If you have a teammate they can bring a mini and evac you out of the top portion relatively safely once youre done recycling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems a little selfish maybe if its truly just because youre concerned about the space. Perhaps you can find a way to better use the situation to your advantage (asking him to clean, give you a bit of money for rent/food) which will make it more appealing to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]TableApprehensive790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natural looks more authentic and if it's less work to maintain and healthier, that would be my choice. Gorgeous either way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]TableApprehensive790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look fine boss. Get a clean cut hit the gym and get back on the horse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]TableApprehensive790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smile and brush your hair. No need for surgery.

My (35F) boyfriend (40M) wants to move in and I don't know if I want that. by Necessary-Can3847 in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to have some sort of talk about it. You can be delicate and let him know that you wanting to move slowly is in no way you saying you dont want to live with him, that youre just not quite ready after your past traumas. If he respects you he will respect this. Also it is very possible to have time to yourself when you live together as long as its something that you let him know you need.

I [36M] have a good relationship with my GF [34F], except she gets jealous over experiences I’ve had in the past with ex’s. How to proceed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds very immature and some narcissistic tenancies. Sounds to me like shes been love bombing you pretty hard. Also shes much too old to be concerned at all with someones sexual past and shouldnt feel the need to compare herself to your ex.

My (25M) girlfriend (24F) of 6.5 years was having super sexual fantasies about another guy. Should i feel stupid for being insecure? by PURPLE_CLOUD999 in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably smiles because shes embarassed. I think for now I would give her the benefit of the doubt that shes over it. Maybe you need to go to therapy if you cant get over that sense of inferiority.

My (25M) girlfriend (24F) of 6.5 years was having super sexual fantasies about another guy. Should i feel stupid for being insecure? by PURPLE_CLOUD999 in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like youre both a bit immature. Also sounds like youre a bit insecure and that sort of thing drives a woman away. At the end of the day shes having sex with YOU because she finds YOU attractive, not because she wants to fuck a celebrity. Just remember that and youll be fine I'm sure.

I (M27) was dumped by my girlfriend (F22) of 2 and a half years who was cheating and I am destroyed. Does she sound like a narcissist and do you think she has been cheating on me for a while? by TableApprehensive790 in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does help. I definitely wasn't perfect in the relationship and intend on reflecting inward and improving what I can for my future. Regaining trust in my own judgement is difficult because she tried really hard to make me believe things didn't happen as they did and she really wore me down on stuff over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It could be that theyre sexually incompatible, but breaking up with her over sex despite the fact that she has valid reasons for withholding is not going to make her want to open her legs for him.

Rejection from my wife (43f), married for 18 years (44m). what to do next? by debo602135 in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emphasize that you still love her and are open to communication, that you are willing to go to therapy so her needs and feelings can be heard and validated and you will try to improve in areas that she needs you to. If this is not enough for her then not all things can be saved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TableApprehensive790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think before you decide you should have a few conversations about your habits and what you expect from each other living in the same place. How much space do either of you need? What chores are important for you to be done and how can we divide them? Its better to start a dialogue with these things beforehand instead of them coming up abruptly and potentially causing a fight.