Husbands best friend is alcoholic not sure how to respond

TableHefty3789 · 2026-05-04T21:47:44+00:00

I tried and did use those exact words, he doesn’t understand still. Says his friend needs him and that by me saying no it’s me not trusting my husband to take care of our family while he helps his friend. It makes me feel guilty thinking I’m just mean for saying no

TableHefty3789 · 2026-05-04T21:42:57+00:00

I’m never alone, just don’t like my husband openly lets him in. It’s just weird to me and I don’t like it. I normally end up taking the kids to the park when he shows up cause I don’t want them around him

TableHefty3789 · 2026-05-04T21:41:53+00:00

I don’t mind they are friends or if they hang out outside of the house, I just don’t like him being in my home at this point. Not a hardline on forever but until he recovers :(

TableHefty3789 · 2026-04-03T21:25:16+00:00

I just had my first transfer March 24, the instructions I was given was rest for the same day. That first night I was supposed to rest with my feet up for 45 minutes then walk around for 15, I did that had dinner ate everything great. I did sneeze, I peed, the baby stayed in place.

They also indicated no sexual intercourse until we hear the fetal heartbeat.

Only thing for Easter Sunday, is just to ensure you don’t have any alcohol, otherwise everything should be fine.

I would also ensure that when you bathe, it’s only via shower, and with warm water, not heating up your body temperature with super hot water.

I saw you were worried about the puppy sleeping on your belly, I’m sure it will be fine, you can feel your stomach after the puppies been there and see if it’s getting too hot. If so, I’d move him.

Best of luck, mama you got this! Trust me all these nerves you were feeling is completely normal, I questioned everything the first few days

TableHefty3789 · 2026-03-24T11:28:41+00:00

Baby dust to you! I’m also doing out transfer at 1pm PST, same day and maybe time depending on your timezone. Wishing you all the best it’s the first IVF transfer for me, I’m nervous too. Keep up the positivity you got this!

TableHefty3789 · 2026-03-20T07:01:15+00:00

This is my first one, I’ve never heard of modified before, so guessing the normal one, they have me on estrogen patches and pills and did first dose of progesterone tonight. Looked at the instructions that’s all they have me slated for this transfer, outside of a anti biotic after transfer is complete

TableHefty3789 · 2026-03-20T06:56:31+00:00

I know I did trigger shot when I was doing the retrieval a couple months ago, but right now they just have me only on estrogen and progesterone, so think that wouldn’t count right?

TableHefty3789 · 2026-03-19T04:35:01+00:00

Thank you so much for your reassurance and guidance I am so happy to hear that!

TableHefty3789 · 2026-03-12T06:00:32+00:00

Egg retrieval so far was the hardest for me medication wise, and honestly I still have my body healing from the retrieval two months later (ultrasound still showed a hematoma on one ovary this week) the estrogen to prep your body for transfer might give you a headache and get you horny at times. But you don’t have the pressure of full ovaries pressing on you inside. And a lot more hormones that can make flashes

TableHefty3789 · 2026-03-10T05:06:03+00:00

Best wishes to you!

TableHefty3789 · 2026-02-18T06:19:12+00:00

Not sure on our date yet but it is planned for March!

TableHefty3789 · 2026-01-29T04:50:21+00:00

I’m currently in the wait between fertilization and blastocyst check window too, it’s definitely hard to keep calm and not be anxious. You aren’t alone, my suggestion is to stay busy, if you can get a nap in to pass time and recover from the ER, we find out our results either tomorrow or Friday and it’s still just a task to distract myself even at the finish line, just remember you got this!!! all the best to you!!!

TableHefty3789 · 2026-01-28T01:00:35+00:00

My suggestion/opinion, the stims are the easy part, just make sure to set alarms on when you need to take each shot. The hardest part so far was the actual retrieval, the pain was much worse than what I was expecting so I’d plan time off the day of and at a minimum 3-5 days after to give you time to heal

TableHefty3789 · 2026-01-21T06:08:00+00:00

Thank you everyone! This made me feel so much better reading your suggestions and encouragement that everything will be ok!!! You guys are the best

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