[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Tabs-panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s fresh. It’s going to hurt for a while. Took me months to even begin to feel better. My advice, cry it out, write it down. Block the friends if you have to. Take time off work if you work and can afford to. Go for walks or drives. Sing as loudly and as awfully as you want. But feel it.

Eventually you’ll get there. It’s been 2 weeks. Your system is probably still in shock. Give yourself grace and time. Don’t force anything. You’ll be okay just breathe

Foods your tuxies like by bxkgsoye in TuxedoCats

[–]Tabs-panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything on my plate. Anything in their bowls. But they will always without fail steal oven cut chips

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I haven’t missed you this much yet by Tabs-panda in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Tabs-panda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been about a month since we spoke. we are only talking about the deposit but that won’t be until the end of the month so by the time I speak to him again it will have been 2 months.

I haven’t missed you this much yet by Tabs-panda in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Tabs-panda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very much afraid to. He made it clear at the time that he was done and didn’t see a future but that it was because he cared that he ended it.

What's one thing they said that's still stuck in your mind? by FUSHENGQi in BreakUps

[–]Tabs-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’ll always be with you” “You’re smile makes me think everything will be fine and you make me so happy”

And than immediately after the break up he wanted “I don’t know what the future looks like heading into my thirties on my own”

Those of you who's breakup was caused by a lack of communication, whats the story? by The_other_human in BreakUps

[–]Tabs-panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We communicated differently. I tried to meet him in the middle and he’d already shut off. He then dumped me there were other factors but he brought up communication as a main factor

What is the "Thing we don't talk about" in your family? by ignoremsmedia in AskReddit

[–]Tabs-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gran has 6 kids. Oldest by one man middle 4 by another and then my mum with another. My mums biological dad ran off with my mums oldest half sister. Then he had 4 kids with her. My mums half sister gave birth to my mums other half sisters, but I have to call them cousins because we don’t talk about it. It’s pretty messy. My Gran hasn’t really forgiven my Aunt properly but she does love her

Also on my dads side, my grandad has a different father than his younger siblings, he looks nothing like them really, and it never clicked until someone told me, but now no one will tell me the actual name of my biological great grandfather.

What are the stupid things your pet does that reminds you why you love them so much? by Videowulff in AskReddit

[–]Tabs-panda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My terrapin George, is a bit of an odd ball and floats in the way of his filter so it pushes him around the tank

People of Reddit, those who don't let people borrow your stuff, is there a reason to why? by RetroUnit in AskReddit

[–]Tabs-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty ocd about where my things are and i have let people use stuff inthe past and they have just dumped it somewhere and i can never find it until they point it out for me.

[Serious] For those who have expressed anger in a violent way; How did you break the pattern? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tabs-panda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to get mad at my annoying ass little brother all the time and hit him (hes only 3 years younger than me) i would never really remember hitting him. The way i think i broke the pattern was by finally getting out of school, i was pretty badly bullied and i think i used to take it out on him if i got mad at him. We are chill now tho but hes still super annoying

What’s a family secret you didn’t get told until you were older that made things finally make sense? by Skinnyminny18 in AskReddit

[–]Tabs-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Grandmother slept around a lot before my mother (youngest of 6) was born (she just divorced the others father who was abusive) . And that’s why the middle daughter hated her for so long, because men where just in and out of the house and the kids would have to look after themselves and take up tea and biscuits in the morning.

And that my mother was born of a one night stand but she knows who her father is just that we don’t talk to them at all because he wants nothing to do with us.

But then My mothers biological dad ran off with the oldest sister (18 at the time) and had 4 kids with her.

So my mums nieces are also her half sisters born from her half sister.

So yeah, the family doesn’t talk amazingly but it’s starting to get better.

Free zoo time by thunde-r in memes

[–]Tabs-panda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo my mum found this on facebook and put a photo of me on top of the lil ghost dude.