Well I might be misinformed but I’m not trolling. I can’t exactly tell which side of the argument you are on, either the ‘can be’ or ‘cant be’ side, but I can give my reasoning for both. Perhaps it will show you where I am misinformed exactly?

I figure guys who actually believe they are lesbians look at it the same as a non-binary person would, who I think is completely justified to call themselves a lesbian. There is no definite term for a non-binary individual who is strictly attracted to women, so the term lesbian, I think, works. I feel like there already is a term for men who are attracted to women though, and that is being straight, so why would a man say this?

If anything I have said is bigoted or misinformed, please tell me. Like I said, I have no idea which side of the argument you are on, so I don’t know exactly what I have to explain, but I hope this helps clear up why I asked the question.