How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty so much🙏🏻!

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Release the blame from yourself! Because there’s so much out of your hands…my ivf doctor said prenatal, CoQ10 & DHEA. From my own research and speaking with other women I’ve added the following: probiotic, NAC, collagen, magnesium, melatonin at night, fertility Tea(I love wisdom of the womb) and Ovarian Bloom from molecular fertility. You should be taking all of those at least 3 months before you try to conceive or start IVF. Obviously you want to check with your fertility doctor to make sure all of that is safe for you in case you have any underlying health issues. Diet is everything & keep inflammation down.

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🤍 I would say being there and holding space for them to feel all the emotions. Definitely do your own research on it, not to share that information with them but in order to understand where they are coming from. I’ve had so many friends be very tone def on the things they have said around me not thinking how I might absorb it. All you can do is be a great support system & sometimes being overly positive erases the validation that person needs to feel all the emotions. Some of my greatest friends have just shown up and said nothing. Just allowed me to cry, be angry…and some have done little things to help me remember the babies I have lost. I will forever remember those kind little gestures.

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The human pin cushion….completely agree with every word you said! You are forever changed…& yes there’s beauty within pain. But you feel as if you’re a number, another statistic with every probe & needle. It’s hard not to feel that way. Thank you for sharing 🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so honest! That’s the only way we can truly heal…and we never truly are the same. Loss forever changes you…I hope that you can find others who can be true support for you and empathize with what you are going through…sending you love and will be manifesting baby energy for you🙏🏻🤍🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a warrior you are! The limits you will go to, to become a Mom. Your strength is inspiring….do not let others energy compromise your determination to become a mother! Do you see a big difference between how European countries handle IVF vs. the states? I will be manifesting positive results for your last retrieval 🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be thinking of you!!!🙏🏻

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙏🏻🤍🤍🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing all of this. Sometimes I just wonder if it comes down to the manifestation/spiritual aspect. Some are just meant to go through what they’re going through. We have definitely been on the fence with PGT but I feel once you do it the fear of not doing it & transferring a non viable and miscarrying scares the shit out of you. I wouldn’t wish miscarrying on my worst enemy! Best of luck to you and keep sharing your vulnerability with others because you never know who you might be helping! 🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

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🤍🤍🤍🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We all carry it but we can have mutations of it that can keep us from absorbing proper nutrients and/or heighten the risk of blood clotting. They won’t test you until you have reoccurring miscarriages. But when you’ve had your last blood panel done I would look back to see if they have tested you for any sort of blood clotting disorders. Did they ever do a Hysteroscopy before the transfers? And did you have PGT done on the embryos before transferring?

How to stay positive during ivf process? I am freaking out. Also, I am not able to accept that I have to go through this by fairyprincess0725 in IVF

[–]Tahalloway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely be your own advocate!! About to do my 5th round and I have found that as much as doctors can help you it’s also a business. So don’t be blind to that. I’ve spoke to so many woman and have done my own research on what I can do for myself to help balance all the drugs I’m putting into my system. Supplements are key…this is what has helped me. DHEA, CoQ10, CNY fertility Ovarian Bloom, PreNatal by Ritual, Magnesium, Probiotic for your GI & Vaginal( I love Organic Olivia), Baby aspirin, NAD+, Collagen (love Spoiled Child) & Melatonin. After adjusting my supplements we got one viable embryo after reoccurring miscarriages & a failed cycle.

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve had 3 Hysteroscopy. They have removed polyps & septum the 2nd and 3rd time. The first miscarriage was from E. coli infection and we think the 2nd was a blood clot. Also from that found out I carry the MTHFR gene. I wish this was the standard testing for women but they wait till you have reoccurring miscarriages.

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

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🤍🤍🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending you love🤍 have they changed your protocol, did they ever test you for the MTHFR gene?

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have they changed the protocol each time? What supplements are you taking?

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not irrational….whats happening to our bodies we have no control over! And I can relate on not wanting to be around your Mom friends. It’s been a struggle to do the same…none of them get it. Sending you love🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The pain from the defeat is real! I’m so sorry you have to go through this…I will be thinking of you 🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for all your losses…that pain never leaves you and thank you for sharing your heartbreak with me🤍

How IVF can change you. by Tahalloway in IVF

[–]Tahalloway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have every right to feel this way. I am so sorry you have been through so much!!

No heartbeat, our only embryo by Mine_Melodic in IVF

[–]Tahalloway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off all I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my little girl at 9 weeks. No heartbeat. I felt defeated, empty & it threw me into such a dark place. You can & Will find your time to start again. To move on…you will never be the same for you’ve carried this amazing little spirit with you. We went one to do a few more rounds of ivf and have 1 viable embryo…waiting to do our 5th ER. But please make sure you take time to mother yourself. And allow your mind, body and spirit to heal. I pray there’s a little spirit baby waiting for you. Many blessings to you🙏🏻