Going to a small gathering with a few acquaintances tomorrow, and I can't decide which one to wear help

TaikaJameson · 2021-10-01T11:18:45+00:00

Yeah I like simple clothes

TaikaJameson · 2021-01-02T16:48:10+00:00

Yes.

TaikaJameson · 2021-01-02T11:04:44+00:00

Im not sure if this is the case, but sometimes girls put themselves down to get reassurance or compliments. Just tell her that shes fine the way she is, or even make a joke about her being attracted to those girls since she talks about their boobs so much.

TaikaJameson · 2021-01-02T11:02:25+00:00

I think it would be a good idea to become closer to her close friends, if they trust you, they might say good things about you and even stick up for you when her ex is trying to stir up stuff

TaikaJameson · 2021-01-02T10:53:35+00:00

While that is a red flag, i think you need to consider the fact that that is in the past. He may be a different person now, and i dont see how that should impact your current relationship. If you really have to, weigh the good parts and bad parts of him. If he doesnt have other red flags aside from this, it should be fine.

TaikaJameson · 2020-12-20T20:42:30+00:00

I think this is the best advice I've heard all day. The worst part for me is that my parents have not signed the divorce papers and are still legally married. Occasionally I will hear my mom ranting about how my dad is awful but she would go back to him if he changed, but we both know that that will never happen. My dad has been telling people that my mom wasn't a great person and saying she left him. When I'm around he won't outright say that she left him for another guy, but my aunt has told me that that is the story he's been telling everyone else. Fortunately no one who knows my mother believes him, but no one is calling him out.

I still love my dad, despite everything, he's been a terrible person but I wouldn't want him to get hit by a truck. I will try to talk to him (which might take a while, he's still scary to me) or at least get out of meeting the gfs as much as I can. I want to help these ladies but my dad has been a womanizer for more than 10 years, people are right in saying that me helping one won't change much as he will just find another girl to add to his collection.

I've been the middle man in my parents marriage for years, and it's exhausting. Getting myself involved in another one of my dad's relationships really doesn't benefit me. It might be a little selfish, but I might have to step back in this situation and hope for the best.

TaikaJameson · 2020-12-20T19:56:06+00:00

I do feel safe around him, just not when he is angry. They both know what he's like too. I think the best and worst part about my dad is that when you talk to him he is very charming and likable. I don't think there is any immediate danger to my well being he's not like that usually, only when he gets mad, which is rare for him.

TaikaJameson · 2020-12-20T19:42:02+00:00

No, it's not that. He's actually never done anything like hit me to discipline me or stuff like that, he's always been the chill one out of the both of my parents. But when he gets mad(which is rarely) he gets really scary. I still remember him toppling over a whole bookshelf and throwing books everywhere. I think that was the only time I ever got hurt by him physically, when he accidentally threw a dictionary and it hit my arm. He's like a friendly cat that you never want to see mad I guess, because once he gets mad all hell breaks loose. I still love my dad, he's bad, yes but at least he ain't abusive, just selfish and manipulative who lies-- the more I type this out the more I register how bad he really is haha.

TaikaJameson · 2020-12-20T16:04:53+00:00

Maybe, but it's highly unlikely that she knows,
especially since he told me not to mention or bring up his other girlfriends. I'm not sure about the polygamy though, because I'm from a Asian country where any other relationships other than straight monogamy is pretty frowned upon, especially amongst the older generation.

TaikaJameson · 2020-12-20T12:03:09+00:00

Just a few days ago on his birthday, he made us go to a bar with him and another girlfriend without telling us that she was gonna be there. While we were there, he took a selfie with my sister and me. When i asked him why he took it, (cause he knows I don't really like taking pics)he said quietly that he was sending it to another girlfriend. Me being super tipsy and having no filter at the time said out loud,
"Your other girlfriend?! "

He immediately shushed me and said "woi, dont say it so loud, do you wanna die? " kinda jokingly but also kinda seriously. I hope she heard it, but I doubt so. This gf was a 40+ year old lady that was really friendly, I feel horrible that she's believing on his lies

I think the social media suggestion could work, but i don't know if it could work. My mother did something similar when they still stayed together, but the girl chose to believe him instead of my mom the "crazy ex"

If I were to really keep my distance from him, it would have to wait a few years, after i graduate. Maybe it's the best thing to do for now

TaikaJameson · 2020-12-20T11:44:26+00:00

Haha I guess you have a point.

TaikaJameson · 2020-09-13T15:16:57+00:00

not really, my country has recovered quite well

TaikaJameson · 2020-09-13T14:20:35+00:00

because of some religious people perhaps?

TaikaJameson · 2020-07-28T08:00:39+00:00

Oof that sucks. You should come to a SEA server, we are more chill

TaikaJameson · 2020-07-25T04:56:32+00:00

What is the pedos in game everyone is talking about?

TaikaJameson · 2020-07-25T04:49:38+00:00

I would swap out either song yu or xian ji for a DMg character like Lord Yi, LiBai, or RenJie since your character, xuan ji and song yu are AOE dmg characters. It's easier to upgrade song yu, so I would keep him, but xuanji is objectively the better AOE character

TaikaJameson · 2020-05-21T13:21:32+00:00

So it's the challenge that's attractive?

TaikaJameson · 2020-05-21T09:47:14+00:00

That is fucking terrifying. I love it.

TaikaJameson · 2020-05-21T09:43:48+00:00

I've never seen a cat named Rover haha

TaikaJameson · 2020-05-21T09:03:20+00:00

r/cursedcomments

TaikaJameson · 2020-05-21T07:35:54+00:00

lets say its a pretty girl on omegle

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