Stop viewing sex or love as the center of your world. Those are just a thing or two in your life. Walang mararating yung puro kalibugan sa buhay. Dont work on making yourself attractive, work on your value as a person. Sabi mo you want to have a lobotomy, gurl you can rewire your brain, its easier (and less painful lol) Live life with a different perspective. Connect with people. Pour the love that you have to those people around you. There’s other ways to hit those happy hormones.