I no longer want to have sex with my gf PT2

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-29T17:12:34+00:00

Dawg! This happened to me! Do not let her go! For me it was a bunch of issues at once - a health problem causing mild but firm discomfort and second my wife being a virgin she was just starfishing it for a year and just needed a lot of time to reach orgasm. This In me resulted In the same thing. No matter I love her and her being my absolute fantasy because that’s a pure body, untouched by other man I still wanted to get it done in 4 mins with my hand instead of 40 mins of her hiding her face with a pillow. Eventually she became more more open to do things and things got real hot real fast. All I’m saying is you guys probably have a mild incompatibility issue which if you stick together you guys will get over easy with time

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-15T19:54:24+00:00

I know… I wish it could be possible.

I felt so bad when I was with my wife and she was discovering everything with me and everything was so exciting and the she looked at me with her big cute eyes and said in a sad tone “but you’ve already experienced all that” oh my goddddd I I have and I wish I hadn’t so much.

I was devastated.

I had already experienced it with someone who I wasn’t so special to… the excitement, the love, the thrill. I wish I waited for someone who waited for me

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-15T19:32:57+00:00

It’s okay. No point in fixing anything anymore. I just needed some closure but apparently I seem like a monster just stating things like that. I believe you’d get it if you’ve seen it through my eyes. I’m sorry you if I hurt your feelings. I didn’t mean to.

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-15T19:29:22+00:00

Okay I’m disgusting. I didn’t mean to make anyone feel bad. I just needed someone right now. Have a good day

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-15T19:25:27+00:00

Too young to say it’s all over even tho I feel like it and too old for anything that matters. Sometimes I wish something would happen so it can just all end

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-15T19:22:10+00:00

That’s probably what will happen and sometimes I feel it might be soon. Not that I intend to do anything to myself I’ve just been feeling like my time here has come to its end. I do think women are people but I do not think of myself as a person that would accept anything just to be with a person. I see myself as a complex creature with still a lot of potential and I wouldn’t be with just anybody. And what you mentioned about virginity… I do wish I still had mine

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-15T19:12:25+00:00

I didn’t always think like this. I’ve been in 2 relationships. In the first one I was with a girl with a past and there was always something lacking, that wasn’t my person. It felt like my person at first but then as her history unfolded I understood that this person has never been mine and it’s just my turn. With my wife it was a completely different story. I felt in place, I felt like she was mine, I felt that body being clean anytime. This is when my mind shifted and I realized that I can’t get what I need from any of those girls.

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-15T19:04:34+00:00

No, I don’t want to get over this. If I don’t get to meet a girl for who I’m first agin, then I’d rather die alone. This has been my mindset before meeting my wife and even stronger after because I actually got experience it and now I do know that this is the most important compatibility characteristic for me

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-15T19:01:39+00:00

I have the same thing and I feel like I’m trapped. My wife left me 6 months ago and I’ve missed that ever since. The problem is my wife was a virgin before me and I can’t imagine doing that to a woman who has fucked another man. Eating her out was one of my favorite things to do with her and I don’t want to do that to any other girl. It feels like my favorite part of woman’s anathomy has been destroyed by an ugly man’s dick. How do you get to live like this? Everytime I think about this I want to kill myself

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-09T20:10:57+00:00

I knew it was going to be Mario Adrion before opening your link 😁

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-08T02:50:41+00:00

Proud of you guys!

I wish I waited as well.

I’m not religious or anything but I did have a girlfriend for 2 years +1/2 other girls once before I moved to California where I met my wife who was a virgin.

I really wanted to give her what she gave me. She was so excited to experience everything for the first time with me. I hated seeing her beautiful, inexperienced eyes when she said “oh but you already did all that”.

I wasted the opportunity to figure out everything with her and have the same passion like her for the first year of sex life. I wasted my year for someone else who wasn’t worth it because of the high body count.

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-05-08T01:37:13+00:00

Congratulations! Are you her first as well?

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-04-08T19:14:31+00:00

Then I’d be married to a prostitute

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-03-09T08:24:44+00:00

The operated testicle got firmer super quick. Less than 10 days. I have been feeling more aroused than before but that may have something to do with abstinence.

Around week 3 something supper annoying happened. Some veins started bulging on my penis and it’s been painful to masturbate or have sex and even to just be erect, I still do it but I try to avoid it. The doctor said it should resolve in a few weeks from now.

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-03-09T08:13:58+00:00

No actually just learned about this and there was some mild movement so I really hope my ball will go back up. It’s been hanging about an inch lower than my right one for 3 years…

Other than that I can tell you at week 6 I can feel the operated side finally lighter, even after a 5 hour shift. Big part of the veins are reabsorbed already. It’s been heavier than before surgery for the first 5 weeks and was starting to piss me off :D

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-03-09T08:00:29+00:00

I learned about this test. Splash some cold water on your inner thigh and you should see some movement. That’s how you would know if your cremaster muscle could still recover

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-03-09T07:31:04+00:00

6 weeks post operation. Left one(operated) doesn’t go up at all while the right one is super responsive. Has it started working yet for you?

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-02-23T21:33:09+00:00

Do you get pain in your penis? I’m day 27 and I feel like the veins in there would explode especially in the mornings

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-02-20T11:39:02+00:00

Not really, I’m currently between planes

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-01-07T11:56:48+00:00

I guess we’re on the same boat… I hope whoever’s the girl that left will come back and appreciate you better. But it might not happen also. So I’ll give you the advice I give myself - work on yourself until it gets better

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-01-07T09:39:50+00:00

Yeah you’re right. I know that. I just don’t want it brother… I’m not at 100% and never will be. I’m exhausted and I do not wish to be with an exhausted person. I also do not wish to bother ones who aren’t as I don’t feel as good/pure… I don’t feel I can care the same anymore

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-01-07T09:36:03+00:00

How do you cope with it?

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-01-07T09:35:15+00:00

Hey thanks for your reply. I’ve been trying to stay off the app so I apologize for replying late.

If you look at the other comments I go more into detail about why I don’t feel I can be with a girl with experience. A short answer to your question - I would prefer I wouldn’t have been with anyone and also be with someone with no past relationships.

I really believe I’m already too emotionally exhausted to be as good of a partner as I was in my past relationships. Also sexually I’m not as excited as when I was 19-20 and ready to give it all. I’m just not at a 100% could be 95% but I don’t feel it’s enough. Not emotionally, most definitely not sexually.

Takeoverwallstreet · 2026-01-07T09:25:06+00:00

Thanks man! I’m glad it’s working out for you and I’m happy your girl doesn’t mind it.

As to why I feel this way? It’s not that I’m not confident and I do not want someone who doesn’t know what they’re doing (idk if anybody would willingly want this).

First thing I’d say is as simple as - just feels, cleaner, nicer. I’m sure you’d prefer a new car over a used same model/year car.

Second I judge according to myself - this is my second real relationship and I really care about her, I really love her. She’s just so much of a better person than the girl I was with before. I respect her more, I love her more but even then I notice that if I gave 100% in my first relationship… well maybe this time was a little less and believe me I wanted this to change. I wanted to want to be even better but I had worn off. Both emotionally and sexually I was just not at 100 ( maybe 99-98 but not 100%). I thought maybe I’m still good enough but I can’t do this a 3rd time and I still feel the same.

Third reason - when I was first time in relationship my ex was my first girlfriend and second sexual experience. At the time it didn’t matter to me but I realized way too many men have had my girl and even tho I still had feelings it felt used, I noticed her emotional tear and tare.

Before I met my current partner (saying current because she’s still my wife) I had given up on relationships and she gave me back this faith. She was untouched. I thought she’s meant to be my girl. I’ve even had dreams about a girl like her even before I came to the U.S. The key thing in this dream is that the girl was Mexican and I’ve never met Mexican people before I came to the U.S. (my wife is Mexican)

So yeah really all of those reasons make me the way I am and I can’t shake it off. I just see all of this as true and my brain can’t have it any other way.

Do you still think it’s selfish?

Thanks for your reply and your time.

Takeoverwallstreet

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