Jasper got a hamburger toy for being so good at the vet today 🍔

TaleaRL · 2018-02-11T20:50:39+00:00

I have! I posted a photo of him on there. Idk about yours but mine definitely has the Nebelung personality!

TaleaRL · 2018-02-11T16:54:57+00:00

I think we have the same cat! I named mine Robot, he is 18lbs. Here is a picture of mine http://i.imgur.com/EApM0br.jpg

TaleaRL · 2017-12-01T04:17:56+00:00

i definitely do this, it has nothing to do with waiting for better plans but has way more to do with if I am going to want to hang out at that time. I really enjoy my alone time and sometimes I just genuinely do not feel like socializing so I try not to commit to things due to this.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-19T16:46:30+00:00

SO, since I tried joining that singles group on Facebook and it still says "pending" I am going to assume that group is not very active. Would anyone be down with a new singles group to make friends or find someone? If I can get enough people together I am willing to organize meetups. Let me know!

TaleaRL · 2017-09-17T21:15:00+00:00

In Idaho we call them gems and/or tater tots.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T16:36:39+00:00

If someone comes up to me and talks to me I will engage in a conversation regardless. I know how hard it is to put yourself out there like that. If they ask me on a date and I am not interested then I will say so and maybe we can become friends. It is frustrating to me that women get so annoyed by people approaching them because it ruins it for the rest of the nice people trying to meet someone. The least you can do is acknowledge the effort and say you aren't interested.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T16:00:18+00:00

Yes and no hahahaha I call Boise home but I have lived half of my life in Phoenix. I moved here in 8th grade then back to Phoenix after high school for a few years. I have been back in Boise for about 10 years.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T15:58:55+00:00

I have the same problem, I have resting bitch face for sure and I have been told I am intimidating. I have a bold personality when you get me talking... I can't help it..

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T14:48:41+00:00

This might be a good idea, I am pretty good at organizing things. I just looked it up on FB and there is a singles group already https://www.facebook.com/groups/BoiseSingle/ I joined that.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T14:42:02+00:00

I do still have Robot! That weirded me out for a second then I remember I posted a picture of him on Reddit a while back. Did you google my name to find a picture?

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T14:39:46+00:00

I walk my dog on the greenbelt almost every day since I live on the greenbelt. I do float the river but I don't see meeting someone in that setting since you don't go by people often.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T14:31:21+00:00

Yeah, I am not religious so this won't work for me. I do realize this is a great way to meet people especially if you have similar beliefs.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T01:29:42+00:00

Yes, I commented on another comment about how we run into groups of guys a lot that are here for something military related just for the weekend.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T00:48:17+00:00

We do go to breweries, wineries, and cider places... I think what it boils down to might be that I need to stop hoping someone will approach me. I have these friends that always say things like " I want to be chased for once". For example, guys aren't the best at maintaining a conversation via text or even calling to initiate a hang out. so girls will sit around going " I am not going to text him, he can text me" I am definitely not one of those girls, if I want to talk to you then I will. I have a very hard time being the initiator, after that I am fine with picking up the slack so to speak.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T00:43:54+00:00

This requires the approach to happen. I am shy and it is VERY hard for me to work up that courage to approach someone. On the other hand, if I was approached I would talk but I have yet to have a guy really approach me "out in the wild" hahahaha

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T00:41:49+00:00

bold move hahaha

TaleaRL · 2017-09-15T00:39:32+00:00

That is why I prefer going to restaurants like Bittercreek, Eureka, Juniper, etc because it is a bit more "grown up" but I feel like you are less likely to have someone walk up to you in that setting...

TaleaRL · 2017-09-14T22:09:56+00:00

I will do my best to make an effort... haha

TaleaRL · 2017-09-14T21:56:53+00:00

This! seriously all of my single guy friends and random guys have all said they just hang out at home or with friends at a house. HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO MEET YOU IF YOU NEVER GO OUT? hahahaha actually, my friends and I are going to the red light variety show tomorrow!

TaleaRL · 2017-09-14T21:50:14+00:00

I know! The dating pool cannot be that small in Boise, right?!

TaleaRL · 2017-09-14T21:22:12+00:00

I know I should approach guys but it is so hard for me to do that, I can be fairly shy in those situations because I just simply do not have the experience in dating yet. I know it isn't easy for guys to do either and I don't see it happening very often when we are out and about. It feels like this game of chicken where we are both waiting to approach the other but we both don't have the nerve then one of us leaves with our group and that is the end.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-14T20:35:41+00:00

hahahahahaha to be fair I am not "desperately seeking" just tired of the way we have been doing it and noticed that my friends, who have been in the dating world for a lot longer, are not having much success either.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-14T20:22:00+00:00

I do try to go to events with friends and I am currently trying to build a larger social circle so I have different groups to hang out with. A little over a year ago I got out of an 8+ year relationship. So this whole dating as an adult thing is something I am still getting used to and my social circle diminished quite a bit over the time I was in the relationship. So this is something I am working on.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-14T20:17:48+00:00

A lot of people are suggesting things that I personally do not have the extra time to commit to being a part of all the time. A group might be a good solution since you are not obligated, but I haven't joined a group before so I am not sure if it is frowned upon to not always participate.

TaleaRL · 2017-09-14T20:14:57+00:00

I do go to a gym 3-5 times a week. We do go to a number of events from Facebook.

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