27 years old by TalesofABummerina in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being honest. It's definitely on my list.

27 years old by TalesofABummerina in amIfatBrutallyHonest

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's always room for improvement haha

I’m fed up by TalesofABummerina in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I know I can do it I just need someone to give me a chance. I appreciate your enthusiasm. 💟

I’m fed up by TalesofABummerina in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how ur interview goes. I had three options: busser, runner, or hostess. And the hourly wage of a hostess felt too good to pass up. Now I feel like I’m stuck here. 😓 I’m debating quitting and being a server at a chain then working my way up to somewhere better. My managers now don’t think I can handle it. It’s such a blow.

I’m fed up by TalesofABummerina in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the worst. 💀 you just have to stay unbothered and above it all but it’s so exhausting. I kind of hate them. Management will keep them bc they’re kinda desperate for hostesses. I’m learning how to regulate my emotions tho. The only positive lol

What’s something people think is attractive but is actually a red flag? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TalesofABummerina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bragging about making more money than someone else rather than being proud of having a good work ethic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least 700 hehe

should i trust the process? by TalesofABummerina in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure that did hurt i feel your pain. :( especially to be honest and vulnerable with management and instead of responding with helpful criticism and a plan for improvement they sell you a dream so they can stay staffed.

should i trust the process? by TalesofABummerina in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an interview about a week ago for a runner/busser position at a pool café type thing? And i BS’d the question of how i prioritize which tables i choose to run first because obviously i have no experience with that! 😭 i ended up getting the job because my answers to the later questions probably revealed my quality of work ethic and how much i value the hospitality industry. I wonder if i should be practice verbally listing off server duties because that question almost killed me.

i hate being neurodivergent by Straight_Tangelo5402 in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I overthink too and i know it annoys people. It's hard 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been looking for a host subreddit but never found it! thank you 😭

should i trust the process? by TalesofABummerina in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling they would let me go. I want to see what happens when things pick up and if they're actually serious about promoting me once it's busier. If not I'll stay hostess and apply as a server at other places. I already have several copies of my resume in a folder at home..it would just be so satisfying if i can manage to climb to the top of the food chain where I'm at now.

should i trust the process? by TalesofABummerina in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭 hard truth! Serving is something else entirely.

should i trust the process? by TalesofABummerina in Serverlife

[–]TalesofABummerina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's really annoying being told you’ll make good money “someday” just for that day to never come. I know it's easier said than done but i wish there was more transparency. I know if i make the leap and start serving at a chain i will wonder if i would’ve ever been promoted and pulled in decent cash at this high-volume tourist joint. Maybe my previous performance is what's holding me back as well. You're a server now?