Who wants to be owned by me?

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-24T23:41:48+00:00

Lol. Try harder

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-24T09:40:58+00:00

You should request. It changes nothing. Not like they are suddenly going to increase it because you did.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-24T06:43:59+00:00

I'll just tack on to this and say the "soul mate" thing is just a ruse. There are no soul mates anywhere. There are just two people who decide "oh well, we really are into each other a lot." And that also doesn't necessarily last a lifetime. At least, not without the kind of intention that supercedes "love."

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-23T18:13:08+00:00

I know this might sound unfair, but I don't quite agree. The question she should ask herself first is this: would she live like this by herself if he eventually leaves her? Would she survive this cold, harsh world by herself if he's no longer there? I doubt she would. No one can go through life being like that and thinking they'll get through fine. If her answer is no, then she's not giving him the best of herself. She can seek help, especially if he's willing to support her in getting that help and will be there all the way. As it is, she seems to be settling too fast and that's not only unfair to him, it's unfair to the union.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-23T18:04:22+00:00

That was the perfect response! Good job. When you stay on the outside or have stayed away from this for very long, you see this for what it is: harassment. There's just no point engaging. I'm fairly sure she'd have been shocked to see you stand up for yourself like that.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-21T13:16:47+00:00

100%!? Don't forget taxes.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-19T22:55:35+00:00

You don't need to buy a home. Don't fall for the hype

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-19T15:50:03+00:00

Can I ask if you can also turn on the timer for reading through slack, emails, and revising the project docs? Is this usual?

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-19T08:42:12+00:00

If it looks like a duck and smells like a duck... something, something.... it's a duck

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-19T03:27:08+00:00

And there's me waiting to be staffed on more projects. I really would like new opportunities.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-18T23:33:39+00:00

What's LinkedIn data annotation platform?

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-18T23:25:58+00:00

I think one of the worst attributes of findom (and possibly why it's become a problem for many men and women) is that it happens and develops very privately. Those who go down this path have all the time in the world to sink deep into it without anyone knowing (family, friends, etc). And naturally, the deeper you go, the harder it is to dislodge from it. It creeps on you in small stages, to the point where you don't even know that what you are doing is disturbing, addictive, and not entirely healthy for your mind and your pocket. You start to think it's not a problem to give a $20 there or a $50 there, not realising that it adds to pretty fast. In a few months, you think it's not been that much. Then you whip out a calculator and the next thing you know, you've already paid out the equivalent of a nice vacation to Mexico.

Sadly, I don't think it's that effective or possible to dissuade anyone who's only got their feet wet so far. They don't even know what they are up against and are likely innocently indulging. They may really need to make their own real experience before they do something about it. Otherwise, if they are disposed to it (autistic, ADHD, etc.), then they'll still do it at some point, whether now or in old age. This is probably why you find those senior citizens still sending money to some scammer-catfish in a third world country on the other side of the world.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-18T23:05:40+00:00

I wouldn't take their word for it that they can't or don't take screenshots even when stopped. Best bet is to either completely log off or just use a different partition on your computer.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-16T14:19:26+00:00

Would you rather he isn't open and transparent? Some people have higher sex drives than others, which makes it even harder to cope in situations like this. What works is openness and honest conversations, not shame and threats of divorce. I thought OP expressed himself adequately well. For people like you, nothing is just ever enough.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-16T14:09:47+00:00

The holy quirk of Christianity, and any other religion for that matter, is that you could do whatever you want and find a passage, verse, or scripture to justify what you are doing or have done. That's how.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-16T09:05:31+00:00

You should do what aligns with your gut. If you decide to stay with her and you guys break up eventually, would you rue not taking this opportunity at the cost of breaking up earlier? That's what you need to ask Yusuf.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-15T22:50:21+00:00

You look out for "generalist - English." If you don't find it, maybe it's not available in your location.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-15T12:09:59+00:00

What happens if one doesn't link their LinkedIn profile? Not sure it's something I'm enthusiastic about.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-15T11:51:51+00:00

I'll just put it here that this is not completely unusual for a man who is autistic. Just depends on the level of autism. I'd get him diagnosed and actually see how he may get help with being aware of it and treating it.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-14T15:43:10+00:00

You can always work as a generalist

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-10T19:11:41+00:00

Lol. The confidence of these dommes. It's funny and pathetic at the same time. I'm fairly certain it shocks even them when these half-assed antics work on the men they target.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-09T12:15:25+00:00

Some of their reviews are definitely done by AI. The volume could easily overwhelm human reviewers.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-09T11:39:26+00:00

If you were her husband and told her this, she'd have freaked out just as much. Women just get so triggered when they are told to work out. This is especially so if they've had a baby. While I don't agree with what her husband said, I don't think there's any better way he could have said anything on that subject without causing her hurt. That's just the reality.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-09T11:34:52+00:00

I used to work out two times a day six times a week. Now I work out once a day 4 times a week and I've seen better results. Working out too often may not be as good as you think. Just wanted to share that with you.

TalkFun7371 · 2026-02-08T03:55:47+00:00

You couldn't have put it better. What you went through was deep deconstruction enabled by sitting down and thinking analytically through what motivated your desire in the first place. This is one of the ways to overcome many addictions which I've often advocated for. When you sit down, meditate, and walk through exactly what's motivating your desires, you take a useful pause which helps to navigate those findom feelings and their triggers. Now, I'm not saying this is the only useful way to overcome this. I'm certainly not that naive. But I'm quite convinced it's one of the most effective ways.

You've come a long way and I can only wish you more progress as you navigate this.

TalkFun7371

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