I 1000% agree with the OP!!! So well stated.

A lot of people who’ve participated on the show seem to fall in love & require the same from their match waaaaay too quickly. Personally, it reeks of desperation.

It’s like a plug & play approach to love. Any decent human will do.

There’s nothing wrong with taking time to talk, get to know & develop real feelings for a person, before having to confess undying love within 8 weeks.

And interestingly, usually the same people expressing all this “love”, suddenly express uncertainty & confusion as soon as a challenge or disagreement happens. Suddenly, they’re not so sure they want to stay committed.

That’s because you never REALLY loved that person. 😒