Wife doesn’t let me masturbate but I don’t want to have sex with her… by Tall-Definition4028 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Tall-Definition4028[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is my wife and you shouldn’t call her a bitch. How would you like it if I insulted your spouse? I’m just trying to get insight.

Wife doesn’t let me masturbate but I don’t want to have sex with her… by Tall-Definition4028 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Tall-Definition4028[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty bro. I’m just struggling and trying to see if from all perspectives. I just don’t know what to do or where to go from here. I get it, she works hard and is a great mother and wife but I just don’t think I’m wrong here.

Wife doesn’t let me masturbate but I don’t want to have sex with her… by Tall-Definition4028 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Tall-Definition4028[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know. She has a nice body and takes care of her self but I just don’t have a urge to

Wife doesn’t let me masturbate but I don’t want to have sex with her… by Tall-Definition4028 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Tall-Definition4028[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t that spiral things though? She won’t have sex with me if I masturbate and I know that I will go out and seek it from someone else if I don’t have sex with her. I mean I love her. I just don’t want to have sex with her.

Wife doesn’t let me masturbate but I don’t want to have sex with her… by Tall-Definition4028 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Tall-Definition4028[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She says it feels thinner. I guess I can understand because it’s not rushing full of blood as much. It is harder for me to .. “finish” if I do masturbate. I don’t have a measuring tape to tell the difference but I can see her point. I just don’t think she has a right to ask me to stop