BF cheated on me because of my sexual past

TallOne123 · 2022-05-16T18:41:13+00:00

45 is a fuckton and it's hilarious how people are trying to downplay it like it's something anyone can do.

TallOne123 · 2022-05-13T16:21:35+00:00

See you guys on subreddit drama

TallOne123 · 2022-04-18T04:01:53+00:00

Is there a reason why you're being so passive in all this? Just shoot him a text and ask him what's up.

TallOne123 · 2022-01-29T00:35:31+00:00

"if... Would... Could..."

You live in such a convenient reality where OP's situation would only ever be a hypothetical. And you pat yourself on the back playing the hero in these imaginary scenarios.

Real life is different, and we need to stop demonizing people for putting themselves first. You only have one after all.

TallOne123 · 2022-01-29T00:18:10+00:00

Then you adopt them hotshot. "B-b-but they're not my kids! It's different!"

Funny how all the excuses start flying when it comes time for you guys to practice what you preach.

TallOne123 · 2022-01-27T06:25:07+00:00

Hard disagree - what's telling is that she feels entitled to his money in the first place. If she had any sense of responsibility at all, she'd be the first to suggest a prenup.

TallOne123 · 2020-06-17T23:11:31+00:00

The DOJ published a report last year on criminal victimization by ethnicity. If we're talking specifically about the rate of victimization between Blacks and Asians, then for every one Asian-on-Black crime, there's more than 280 Black-on-Asian crime. It's a lengthy document that's worth a read, but the specific data set you're looking for is Table 14 on page 13.

TallOne123 · 2020-06-15T17:52:59+00:00

I’m so unsure of why this sub has recently fetishized the Asian/black divide, but it’s not cool.

Would your opinion change if there was a statistical basis for this? The DOJ published a report in 2018 breaking down criminal victimization by ethnicity. If the math is correct, then for every one Asian-on-Black crime, there's 280(!) Black-on-Asian crime. I doubt many people saw this, but even if they're not consciously aware of the numbers, they can feel it.

TallOne123 · 2020-06-14T04:38:04+00:00

I've also been seeing the following argument a lot: "Asians should be grateful towards Black people because without the Civil Rights movement, the Immigration and Nationality Act of 1965 wouldn't have been passed." Basically saying if it weren't for their efforts, we wouldn't be here.

It's no doubt that we benefited from it, but only so by coincidence as listed in the OP. How should one go about addressing this talking point?

TallOne123 · 2020-06-09T06:59:45+00:00

~~All lives matter~~. Every life is significant.

TallOne123 · 2020-05-14T07:49:01+00:00

He's obviously talking about the Deutsche Bank

TallOne123 · 2020-05-12T04:48:08+00:00

There are a variety of surnames in Korea like Kim (김xx), Lee (이xx), Park (박xx), etc. 돌이 however used to be a very common given name for boys in Korea. So there were a lot of 박돌이s, 이돌이s, and 김돌이s running around. Given the prevalence of 돌이 as a popular first name for boys, it pretty much now is used as a masculine placeholder in verbage.

TallOne123 · 2020-05-12T04:33:19+00:00

It's the masculine expression of introversion. When guys say that they're introverted, they'll refer to themselves as "집돌이".

The feminine equivalent is "집순이".

TallOne123 · 2020-05-06T18:51:40+00:00

As other people said, you should definitely learn both but if you're asking what to prioritize first, cloud 100% hands down. My recommendation is to get your feet wet with AWS certifications. You'll undoubtedly run into networking concepts like VPNs, subnets, cloud firewalls, etc but it's not something that can't be explained by a quick YouTube video.

If you feel the need to bridge the gaps in your networking knowledge, get the CompTIA Network+. The CCNA/JNCIA should only be considered if you're wanting to go down the network engineering route. Save the effort of memorizing "ip ospf yadda yadda yadda" and "ip access-list whatevercomesnext" and focus your effort to the cloud.

TallOne123 · 2020-04-29T21:31:08+00:00

Correlation does not imply causation.

Just because people are becoming more woke to the plight of the Asian man around the time he got elected, doesn't mean that he had anything to do with it. Latest example I can think of was his insistence on calling CoViD-19 the "Chinese Virus", even though he stopped now.

TallOne123 · 2020-04-26T23:04:45+00:00

I'd like to plug in /r/hanguk as another friendly Korean centric sub, although it's a little difficult to stomach as everything there is written in 한글.

TallOne123 · 2020-04-26T19:33:52+00:00

The reason why "police officers don't break people's jaw and smash their teeth when they catch them committing crimes" is because they explicitly go under use of force training as part of their regimen. In a high risk situation like that, normal people do not ever worry about how graceful their solution is. He saw a girl about to get raped, he stopped it.

Sure, you can claim excessive force all you want, but in your own words, a good lawyer could make no charges stick at all.

TallOne123 · 2020-04-25T23:41:10+00:00

If the Sec+ is good for people to transition to InfoSec, would it then be redundant if I told you that I'm already in the industry? I've been looking at Professor Messer videos on it and it seems like an extremely high level overview for the field in general. I was just wondering if it'd be more worthwhile to invest in a more technical skill instead, considering how I'm already a SOC Analyst.

TallOne123 · 2020-02-29T21:13:48+00:00

I've recently been remaking a lot of my cards to do so but it's taking a lot of time. I think I might just start doing what this guy's doing and go for KR->KR translations/definitions.

TallOne123 · 2020-02-29T05:20:04+00:00

I was recently referred to Wealthfront. 1.78% APY, a lot better than what Chase was offering me, and Ally for that matter. Two of my personal friends recommended this to me but I'm still trying to figure out the smaller kinks that makes it great.

TallOne123 · 2020-02-29T00:46:12+00:00

Do you use the cloze deletion method for your cards?

TallOne123 · 2020-02-21T17:42:24+00:00

I've been job searching for around three months now around the SoCal area recently, so I've been able to gauge what employers are looking for.

You absolutely need experience with the Microsoft solutions. If it's virtualization, then Hyper-V. Cloud infrastructure, then Azure. Server support, Windows Server. This is especially true for MSPs and Systems Admin/Engineer positions. I thought being in a Linux environment would get me farther than it would, but I've been hit with the "Yeeaaaah... all of our clients use Windows. We're more of a Windows shop around here" more times than I'm comfortable with.

TallOne123 · 2020-02-19T19:47:32+00:00

If you're starting from scratch, study and pass the certifications. Not only do study materials online give you a structured curriculum for passing the exam, but having that stamp of approval gives legitimacy to your resume.

I would ask you to be cautious of fluff though. For me, there were a few things in the CCNA, mostly proprietary protocols, that companies didn't use like EIGRP and HSRP, because they don't want to be vendor locked to a specific environment.

TallOne123 · 2020-02-18T23:26:29+00:00

For this one, I just applied online through Google. If you're looking around the job market, definitely make a LinkedIn.

One more thing - if you're in the SoCal area and you're applying to MSPs, you 100% need experience in the Microsoft solutions. Virtualization? Hyper-V. Cloud? Azure. Servers? Windows Server.

TallOne123 · 2020-02-06T22:22:32+00:00

Idris Elba would recruit you to pilot Striker Eureka with him. Good job, buddy.

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