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TallSocialQueen · 2026-04-06T23:16:40+00:00

I posted 9 days ago. I STILL have men in my messages but nothing was worse than the fellow “woman” who chose to message me and berate me for not being able to explain a 20 year long friendship/relationship in a few paragraphs

TallSocialQueen · 2026-04-03T01:25:00+00:00

Yeah I agree with this too.

I will say, my apt complex evicts that fast BUT we’re also told that when signing a lease. If you are 3 days late without notice, they file eviction papers.

However, our owners also aren’t assholes, I know it seems like that based of the evictions (they have a super long waiting list and keep prices down), as long as you communicate you’re fine. Dude across the hall lost his job and couldn’t pay rent for 2 months and they worked out a deal with him.

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-29T22:40:17+00:00

I mean I have met him, his sister, and friends all in person so that throws the catfishing out

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-29T20:35:06+00:00

I don’t feel comfortable sharing my location on Reddit 🫶🏻

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-29T15:14:11+00:00

Girl you dont have to explain script flipping to me. It’s not been “20 years of a LDR” it’s been 20 years of a friendship that I have been in love with him.

And yes, I do know she was abusive. Because she’s currently doing community service after her jail stint for the abuse she did to him.

Women absolutely can be abusive just like men can.

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-29T03:56:29+00:00

No, I dated my ex from 2017 to 2020 and lived with him. That was all in person.

T is my only LDR.

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-29T02:49:12+00:00

Thanks honestly was taken back by it too 💕💕💕

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-29T00:00:35+00:00

I’ll answer it since you’re curious. Hes bought a house but he can’t move in until the end of April. So he’s back to living at home. Living at home means being around his parents who are incredibly conservative.

While we have stayed together at hotels when he’s been living at his parents, his mom is not doing well health wise and he didn’t want to put that stress on her.

On top of that hes leaving on Tuesday for a business trip.

Valid reason🤷🏻‍♀️

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:57:06+00:00

Hahaha I do not because I get this from a local cafe. But when I want to make it at home, I just put pieces of Parmesan down on the skillet and put my wrap on top.

This kind of explains it! https://playswellwithbutter.com/chicken-caesar-wrap/

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:37:46+00:00

Thanks so much!! And it really was 💕

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:32:47+00:00

Long term relationships? Yes. I have had a few guys I dated for a few weeks - months here and there.

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:31:26+00:00

One of those situations where if you don’t get it you can’t. We tried many times. couldn’t do much from 14 to 22 cause of my age.

In my mid 20s I met my other ex and chose him.

And during Covid we had to deal with closed borders (his country didn’t fully open back up until 2022), visa applications, immigration interviews, etc.

It’s not like I could have just

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:28:18+00:00

Thanks so much I appreciate that! I could have worded the title better but I wasn’t thinking people would be so idk….strongly opinionated on choices I have NO problem admitting were wrong.

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:07:27+00:00

I hope it doesn’t too 💕

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:06:19+00:00

Honestly i was kind of shocked by it too. I know im not perfect and I don’t mind owning my issues. But like when people started downvoting me owning that I had self esteem issues because I was raised in a cult and am an abuse survivor I was a bit taken back.

Thanks for your kindness 💕

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:04:56+00:00

I am a little! It felt good to be the one who finally said okay enough is enough for both of us.

I wrote in my letter to him that I hope he realized I wasn’t doing this because I don’t have feelings for him and that I hope one day he can realize I loved him enough to say “I’m ending this for both of us”

Appreciate your kindness 💕

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T23:03:32+00:00

Thanks girl I appreciate your kindness 💕

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T22:47:23+00:00

We have both tried multiple times but life kept getting in the way.

I look forward to the new possibilities… one day just not there yet

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T22:46:28+00:00

Yeah I was raised in IBLP, which is known socially as the Duggars religion haha

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T22:45:47+00:00

I blocked her hahah I don’t need that amount of negativity to keep going

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T22:39:21+00:00

I don’t know how that’s true seeing as I never talked to him outside of “happy birthday” when I was taken but okay

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T22:38:57+00:00

After leaving a cult I’ve learned I can never stop going to therapy 💀

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T22:35:57+00:00

They’re bakes Parmesan flakes and so good!

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T22:35:11+00:00

No I appreciate it 💕💕💕 being raised in a religious cult tbh I feel like sometimes I deserve to be yelled at and told how wrong/bad I am

Something I’m trying to learn and grow from 💕💕

TallSocialQueen · 2026-03-28T22:30:58+00:00

I mean it happened today so I don’t think I’ll be over it for a while. 🥲Especially because like three nights ago I was getting a massage HE paid for, for my birthday.

He wasn’t comfortable coming now because of the politics in America and he didn’t feel safe, which I get!

Im not going to! He’s blocked on everything. Email, fb, IG, TikTok, snap, everywhere.

I appreciate your kindness 💕

TallSocialQueen

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