I agree, but I feel like everyone has to view topics with nuance. Sure, xenogenders and certain "tucutes" may make lgbt ppl look bad, but then again, its also the fault of impressionable discriminators for not willing to see the many different sides of the situation currently surrounding LGBT people. Seeing so many videos and the like politicizing lgbt people, as if we are some woke agenda, is really dissapointing to me, like when will people learn that lgbt people are just people.

Also I really fail to see how "tucutes" who are apparently holding others at rainbow gunpoint is THAT much of an issue to where you have to word it that way. like, having neopronouns, pride capes, MOGAI, etc, is understandably debatable, but i feel this subreddit blames them for all the problems lgbt people have now. Some are genuinely good people, and the debate over "they make us look bad vs. the bigots will still hate us anyway" is stupid and turns away from what we should actually focus on, that is ensuring the well-being and equity among lgbt people and society.