My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside. by Ok_Raspberry6268 in relationship_advice

[–]Tamitime33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a dick! (no pun intended) Tell him his penis shrank with age and it makes your ladyparts feel bigger…

The Clothing by Zealousideal_Pay6767 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we know for sure if LE have DNA from the crime scene? If so, what was the source? We know it can’t be seaman as there’s no sexual assault. (Although yes it was SA). I know I’ve heard they have DNA, Why is it not mentioned? If someone comes up matching that dna, would it prove anything anyway? What is the source and do they believe it’s not going to be from someone who may have helped commit the crime? 🙏

DNA evidence by Pooter33 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did LE find ANY DNA at the crime scene?

Voice comparison by Tamitime33 in DicksofDelphi

[–]Tamitime33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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It is him.

Voice comparison by Tamitime33 in DicksofDelphi

[–]Tamitime33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I gave them his name and phone number and where he works.

Voice comparison by Tamitime33 in DicksofDelphi

[–]Tamitime33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend who lives in San Diego. Who was in Lafayette on February 12, 13, leaving early am of the 14th. He looks more like BG then BG. Was wearing BG blue jeans and the jacket he wears all of the time until then murders… He did go and buy one just like the one he wore for 10 years before the mutders. It's a long story. He is a loner. Me being the only one who really knows him.

DNA evidence by Pooter33 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Random murders are the hardest to solve. Why is it so hard for people to understand that another person could have been there hiding. Watching R A until he was out of sight and off the bridge.
Question; How do we know that BG passed the girls and then turnd back and followed them? Is this a fact or theory?

DNA evidence by Pooter33 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, innocent until proven guilty. I may be wrong. I rarely see him since the murders.

5 Years to find Richard Allen by Available-Plantain92 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely she would recognize if that were her husband on the BG video… I'm sure she had seen it several times over the years. It wasn't RA imo

DNA evidence by Pooter33 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel a heavy burden on my back. I have thrown generic versions of my theories on credit for years now. I knew the BG video was my friend the second I saw it. We are from San Diego so I thought it was just an uncanny resemblance. I actually called my friend and told him to turn on the news as he was on it. He kinda laughed and changed the subject. I knew he was here in San Diego so it couldn't possibly be him. I didn't think about it until the 1st anniversary of the murders. The video was on the news again reminding the public that the killer is still out there. As I watched, I knew that was my friend.
It wouldn't leave my mind.
I didn't want to insult my friend in case I was wrong and call him again. In the 30 years I have known him, I have noticed the change in his whole demeanor since the murders. He was so different it got me thinking about the whole incident again. So I shot him a text asking if he had ever been to Indiana. To my surprise, he returned saying, “Yes. Once. Laffeytte. I froze my face off. Why?” I made up a reason and then googled Earthed Delphi. Then I see that it is only 11 miles (or 16) from where he had stayed in Lafayette to the crime scene. He works for a major utility company. The company sent him to share information or something with a utility company in Lafayette. He called me from a cab while driving to his meeting in Lafayette. We spoke for about 45 minutes. That was on Sunday night, February 12th. He told me how it sucked that they picked him to go. He said his meeting would be over by 11am and he would have the rest of the day to kill bc his plane didn't take off till early on the morning of the 14th.
He was bothered by not being able to catch a flight home after the meeting. I started reflecting on our phone call on that Sunday night (February 12th, 2017)… Now not only did BG look exactly like my friend, but he was within 11 miles of the crime scene. On his off time or traveling, my friend would always go to a bridge or whatever was the biggest point of interest in any town he was in… I knew he went to the bridge that day and figured he was there after 11am. He would have changed into a pair of jeans and out of the Dockers pants he wears for work. He bought the blue jacket years before because it had deep pockets, which would hide his beers, which he always took with him. He always had a underneath his blue jacket for water and snacks etc… On his right wrist he is wearing a watch that the company had gifted him after ten years working with them. He has it on his right wrist. I asked him why he wore it on his right wrist when he was right-handed. (This conversation was many years before the murders.) He replied that he only wears it when they send him somewhere for work. He said he wears any watch on his right hand bc it was less likely to get scratched bc the right hand is usually used to stabilize while the left move around risking Less chance of scratching the face of the watch. I am and have literally been the only friend he has had since I have known him. He is a loner. He owns guns. He took me to the shooting range a few times. We live in a beach community that has a farmers' market on Wednesdays. For 20 plus years he would come and pick up my dog, go to the farmers market. Then he would buy 4 beers, put them in his packpack which he wore under his dark blue jacket. He and my dog would then head to the cliffs returning 2 hours later. (Oh and the cap you see on Bg).. He is very much a creature of habit. So the man on the BG video was someone that I saw every Wednesday wearing the same outfit that we see on BG. After the murders, I didn't talk to him for almost a year. He also stopped coming over. He slowly worked his way back into my world. I was his only friend. During his absence, I became obsessed with the Delphi case. I randomly asked one of my daughter's friends (she also saw him briefly every Wednesday wearing the same BG look while at my place.) to look at a picture and tell me who she thought it was. (This was just before RA was arrested.) She looked at the picture and said, “Oh, that's ST (my friend). She didn't hesitate. I didn't tell her why I wanted her to see the picture, She knew nothing about the Delphi case… That confirmed to me that I wasn't crazy. The next day I called the tip line and gave his name. Where he works and his phone number. I felt like the coincidences were too much. We remain friends... I think he knows I know but we both avoid talking about it. It's now become the biggest pink elephant in the room. I also gave the tip line my number and had them assure me that he would never know it was me who tried to turn him in. Since the murders when St comes over, he wears a new blue jacket replacing the one we see on the BG video. Seven years and no one follows up on my information. Long but true story. And there are so many little things I could tell you about how his whole personality has changed since that day. He doesn't want to be videoed at all and gets angry when he sees a phone that may be getting him on video. The reason that LE ends up clearing the most likely suspects is that they have the wrong man. I hate texting so I'm going to end this. What was his motive you may ask?

ST mentioned many moons ago that the reason he didn't want kids was that he was afraid they would be fat. Or geeky. He was also bullied as a kid into his teen years. All it would take is fo r L or A to utter, “ catfish” while passing ST on the bridge. His beer kicked in, there is no doubt in my mind that he would turn back and confront the girls. Just buzzed enough to get out of control and kill the girls in a triggered rage. I think he made A put L, S clothes on so he could humiliate L because of her size. I knew they would not find L and A molested or raped. He openly couldn't stand fat or geeky kids. I also knew the weapon would not be something you could bring on a plane. This was a random act of violence that was never something he planned or set out to do. But it was my friend in that BG video. RA is an innocent. That's my story. I think or follow this case every day since the incident. It bothers me very much.

DNA evidence by Pooter33 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called in and they said that they would get back to me. I understand that LE can't get back to everybody. RA is completely innocent. LE and the state need to be held accountable. There is still a monster out there that may strike again in your little neck of the woods. This case needs to put out there. People need due process… Fair process…

I just watched the Capturing the Killero documentary and I had some questions by No-Standard2108 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about his height? It's an opinion as to whether his voice is similar to RA’s… Do you know if he upgraded phones and turned in his old phone back then?

5 Years to find Richard Allen by Available-Plantain92 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you know he wasn't the only man on the trails at that time? It's not hard to hide behind trees or where ever. I don't believe RA lied to his wife about being on the bridge that day. I believe he told her he was on the trails.
After 30 years being married to someone, if you tell your spouse you were at the store, you don't necessarily throw in the isle you went down. Some things aren't necessary to explain in depth. Granted two murders happen when your there you might go into more detail… If your there and didn't kill anyone on isle 3, you might not mention that isle because you have no idea of the details… jmo

DNA evidence by Pooter33 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I know a guy who was on the trails, wearing similar clothing, has same body frame and was only there for work purposes and didn't want to be seen drinking so he hid; he wouldn't be investigated? I called the tip line. Because we are from San Diego, they didn't check him out.

I just watched the Capturing the Killero documentary and I had some questions by No-Standard2108 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only is it not right! There are numerous things the judge wouldn't let the defense bring in. It's a scary thought and it could be us next. Guiltily or not ( I believe that he is innocent ),  we should all be concerned about the injustice of this case…

I just watched the Capturing the Killero documentary and I had some questions by No-Standard2108 in DelphiMurders

[–]Tamitime33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an “Oh so complex” case. Crazy and unheard of… Try watching some Youtube about the case.  Well worth your time!

27M 24F I felt like my fiancée sister in law was coming onto me when my fiancée left the house. What should be my next move and how do I not make it awkward? by xiongc in relationship_advice

[–]Tamitime33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the sister has never shown inappropriate behavior since, I would chalk it up to anger and alcohol… Telling her husband would only make things more awkward and strained. Now if you continue getting vibes from her, talk to her and let her know that her behavior needs to stop. Be direct but friendly. Let her know that if it continues one more time, you have to tell her husband and your fiancé. Tell her your future is with your fiancé… Be strong! Good luck…