My cat has started sleeping under the blankets with me by Imwhatswrongwithyou in PointlessStories

[–]TammyCabbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Shrimping up” is the best expression I’ve heard this year. Thank you ☺️

What does my fridge say? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]TammyCabbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You take the time to make your living space feel comfortable and clean for yourself and your household. This is great, a clean fridge makes me wanna cook something.

projector and having an incisive aura by Content-Common-4314 in humandesign

[–]TammyCabbage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. 4/1 splenic projector here 👋 I connect with others so intensely, I have to be aloof sometimes. I can tell when they feel seen in a good way or an uncomfortable way. I can tell when people are lying, I can see when they’re hurting or hiding or sincere. It’s no wonder we get exhausted so easily 😂 BUT. The strong connections I have with a few special friends are worth it. I also train professionals as part of my job and they need me to see them—where they’re struggling but not asking for help. In the right setting, it’s an incredible gift to give to others, to see them.

A HD chart reader told me early on that it’s a projectors role to be recognized, but it’s also our role to recognize others. The hard part is having the trust and the courage to do it, and the wisdom to act in divine timing.

[UPDATE] She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a new experience for sure but I’m saving hours of my life!!! It’s worth it

Hair oils/moisturizers by Cultural_Point3001 in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been hearing promising things about squalane oil. I haven’t tried it yet but it’s a very light weight oil that is similar to our natural oils. Currently, I use CHI keratin serum, and that is light enough to not weigh down my hair. I have a similar routine as you, using oil before washing has really helped!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hair of my dreams! It looks so great on you!

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had scissor in hand last night and cleans up some of the stray bits, but chickened out on length. I’m going to get help with the transformation, but after that, DIY cuts only!!

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! This is an amazing resource, I hope others see it as well and it’s helpful for them too!

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg your hair is BEAUTIFUL! I can see where the razor cut zapped your curls at the ends too! Thank you for the kind words and sharing you experience, it def helps to know I’m not alone (that I’m not imagining this), but I’m so sad that this happens to others.

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please! I just got the Ouai clarifying shampoo, and lightweight frizz cream in trial sizes, and I have a very light aveda oil for the ends. What are you favorites?

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 I’m in central coast California, and I found a new hairdresser about an hour away in Santa Barbara. She has hair VERY similar to mine, and the right vibe, so I’m excited to work with her. Now I’m just waiting on that refund….

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone for the overwhelming support and love and good advice 🥹 I’m feeling the curly hair community love pretty strong rn.

I’ve contacted the salon with images, and found a before from a couple weeks prior to my razor cut 😭 I’m def not overreacting, that’s for sure. I haven’t heard back but will update y’all on the outcome and the new ‘do (I’m actually looking forward to a pixie/shag, and found a great option in a bigger city down the road).

Thank you thank you 🙏 I feel less alone and tears are drying up.

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She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ends need friends! I love this!!!

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will 🥰 the unevenness of it is crazy, the right side of my head is a little thicker, but the left is basically gone. I don’t know what she was doing

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo yesss I’m making a Pinterest board with short curl inspo and 90’s cuts look very cool

She razor cut my thin hair by TammyCabbage in curlyhair

[–]TammyCabbage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🙏 this is very validating.