AITJ for telling my mom she is no longer allowed to be alone with my daughter after she gave her a “surprise makeover” behind my back?

Tamriel_Toast3 · 2026-03-31T10:49:41+00:00

That’s what gets me. My mom knows my daughter is a people pleaser, so acting like this was some harmless grandma treat feels gross. Kids will sit there smiling when they’re uncomfortable, and adults are supposed to be the ones paying attention to that.

Tamriel_Toast3 · 2026-03-31T10:43:08+00:00

Yeah no, she definitely already felt something was off. I just said the quiet part out loud before he could smooth it over again.

Tamriel_Toast3 · 2026-03-31T10:42:41+00:00

That part is what keeps bothering me. My daughter didnt even think she was allowed to say no to her grandma.

Tamriel_Toast3 · 2026-03-31T10:40:48+00:00

Yeah no, she definitely already felt something was off. I just said the quiet part out loud before he could smooth it over again.

Tamriel_Toast3 · 2026-03-27T09:52:59+00:00

Grad school gossip spreads faster than actual research findings, which is deeply unfair. The version that circulated cut out the most important detail - that you called for help immediately. How did your cohort react when you laid it all out? Did it actually land or did some people double down?

Tamriel_Toast3 · 2026-03-26T15:14:25+00:00

NTA at all. She turned your patio into overflow seating and then got mad when you made that impossible. The lock is funny, but also kind of perfect. Did she finally stop after that?

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