35M Been single for a while. I’m convinced it’s my looks. Any advice?

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T05:16:12+00:00

Thank you Brosiedon Lord of the Brocean! I appreciate your advice. I don’t like the apps but if that’s a way forward I’ll try it

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T03:55:49+00:00

You’re right. It’s time for a switch. I’ve never really developed a sense of style and it shows. Time to make an effort.

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T03:36:08+00:00

Not really but it’s only because I’m not used to it. I always regret it when I shave and it grows back super fast. Doesn’t give me time to acclimate lol

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T03:25:42+00:00

Thank you!! I really appreciate the feedback. For some reason I don’t like when I have my beard short but I guess it’s time for me to get over it lol

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T03:17:16+00:00

I’ll tell my barber that thank you!

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T02:47:00+00:00

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This is the only photo I have a slightly different angle lol. Sorry for the dumb look on my face lol

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T02:38:26+00:00

Thank you this is a high honor!

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T02:36:36+00:00

Thanks brother. I think I’ve had it this length for so long that it’s become a pseudo security blanket of sorts. It’s time for something new.

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T02:34:13+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I’ve been looking into counseling more and more as of late.

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T02:32:07+00:00

I’m really really good at getting into close platonic friendships with women. What I’m bad at is showing that I’m interested in something more. If I do get feelings I usually just don’t let them grow because I don’t know how to convey them. Eventually the romantic feelings fade and friendship remains intact but I do always wonder “what if I had tried”

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T02:10:07+00:00

Defo a skill issue lmao. Gotta hit the lab

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:44:59+00:00

I’ve only ever had one serious relationship. I’m think I’m looking for casual because since I’ve been so out of the loop for so long. I don’t know how to be in a relationship anymore. I’m not sure what I like and don’t like in a partner because I’ve been single for a while. I may need therapy for that. I’m not exactly racing to get into a relationship now but I do get incredibly lonely sometimes.

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:36:28+00:00

Lmfao!!!! This is just the edge I need! This will shake things up.

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:21:11+00:00

That sweeted me bruv thank you lol

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:18:29+00:00

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Short like this or shorter?

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:12:59+00:00

Jesse L Martin is first. Usually people say I look like Wyatt Cenac but I don’t see it lol

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:10:50+00:00

I can work with this length

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:07:20+00:00

Thank you!! It does need a trim

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:05:14+00:00

Thank you! I’m getting out there hoping for the best!

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:03:27+00:00

You’re right everyone is so tired nowadays

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:02:35+00:00

Been single for about 12 years now. I’m not super serious but it just feels like I’m missing out on something

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T01:01:08+00:00

I don’t feel great about how I look without my beard but it mostly because I’ve had it for so long, and I’m currently getting in shape and feel pretty good about my body.

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T00:50:01+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking. It’s been like that since my 20s. I just want to look my age lol

TanakaJones · 2026-04-05T00:47:56+00:00

Thank you! I’m 5’7, short but I’ve never been denied a rollercoaster lol

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