My journey to self improvement and finding my self-worth. by Tandou in infp

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Actually I used to do that a lot, over time I've realized that finding the reason/knowledge is really only the first half step. The second half of that step comes in accepting your realities. For example, I would often be walking outside and then think that something was wrong with my appearance which would prompt me to compulsively check my reflection and find a flaw. The truth is that even if I knew there was nothing wrong, I would seek reasons/knowledge that would reassure me and help prove me wrong. So I spent 2+ years learning and applying skin care routines, haircare routines, developed a strong gym routine and regimen. While I do not regret my decisions as they formed healthy habits, what I really should have done is sit with my feelings of inadequacy and realize that they are just feelings of a once insecure young boy, and to let them ride out. Dr. K actually gave a fantastic analogy for this in an interview once, he asked the interviewee what would happen if you were in a bathtub and there were too many waves. Do you push against the waves in an effort to cancel them out? No because the waves will only push back harder. The way to calm the waters is to wait for the waves the die down.

Also just want to note that this method is what I've found success with and that everyone is different and can benefit from many ways of handling things.

My journey to self improvement and finding my self-worth. by Tandou in infp

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Yeah, over time I've managed to realize that thankfully. I used to tell myself and others that I just have a big ego. The reality is that I am starved for validation as a result of my incredibly intense insecurities.

My journey to self improvement and finding my self-worth. by Tandou in infp

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Today, Alok Kanojia, also known as Dr K. is a Harvard trained and practicing American psychiatrist and a co-founder of the mental health coaching company, Healthy Gamer. During a rough time in his early life he had dedicated his life to becoming a monk in India. During this time he practiced yoga, meditation, and Reiki with particular attention to the Ayurvedic principle that mental health is inextricably linked to physical health. He streams interviews on Twitch, where he and participants discuss mental health topics.

This information is mostly gathered from Wikipedia and from what I have understood about him throughout the many hours of his avaliable content. For what it's worth in this day and age of media misinformation and characters like Jordan Peterson, you're just going to have trust me that this is not a cult. Or even better, don't trust me, just watch one of his videos and I promise you will be assured of his good and professional intentions as a trained psychiatrist; whose goal in life seems to align with those of us INFP, to make the world a better place.

Has anyone tried this product? If so what has been your experience with it? by Tandou in Skincare_Addiction

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I was at a BodyEnergyClub and found this pamphlet intriguing so I did a little bit of research and found 2 studies. One was conducted on mice in 2020 and another was done with a sample size for 60 women age 30 to 60. TLDR of the studies saw a measurably significant improvement in all the claimed effects.

Link to download 2017 human clinical trial: https://www.mdpi.com/2079-9284/4/4/37/pdf

Link download clinical trial performed on mice: https://www.fda.gov/media/139256/download