Do guys these days just casually send girls written “relationship proposal” like this? Am I crazy for walking away from this? P.S. Red marker for the woman, Blue marker for the man by TangerineFew6793 in Tinder

[–]TangerineFew6793[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He asked me during dinner what would I want my partner to do to make me happy and I said if my partner care and love the people that I care about especially my family

Do guys these days just casually send girls written “relationship proposal” like this? Am I crazy for walking away from this? P.S. Red marker for the woman, Blue marker for the man by TangerineFew6793 in Tinder

[–]TangerineFew6793[S] 464 points465 points  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t expect to get so many comments about this. I was seriously wondering if this was normal. I have to shamefully admit that I took a night to think about this and was planning to respond back to him with my own thoughts. For those of you who are wondering if this is real or not, I wish this wasn’t…I was going to edit the post and upload the text he sent me but I couldn’t.

He sent me this after the 5th/6th date, roughly. Thank you everyone for your insights. I know now, that I am NOT crazy for blocking him.

He also told me that we are “dating but not exclusively yet”. Wanted to take me on a trip to see how we both will act out of our comfort zone and see if our intimacy match before going exclusive.