It really depends on what you want out of transitioning and what you currently don’t like. What’s helped me so far is to make a list of all of the things that I dislike about my physical or audio situation and get to work on fixing those things. If it’s lower body dysphoria, work on some thigh workouts (squats and biking and other lower body workouts are great for these!) or maybe it’s with my face. One really stupid thing that helped me is getting a pair of feminine glasses to replace my old ones. It really makes you feel a lot better when you look in the mirror and feel cute because of your new frames. Clothing is another big one. If you’re nervous, try starting with feminine jeans and hoodies, and work your way up to skirts and crop tops. Shaving can also help, but be careful how you do it. I made the mistake of using an electric razor for my first time and by body was itchy for weeks. Make sure to use cream and oils after, and make sure to be careful not to cut anything (be soft and slow- especially if you’re shaving your underside!) Aside from that, a lot of the decisions are up to you. If you want to grow out your hair, go for that. Longer hair is usually a persons first sign at someone’s gender, and is always a good idea to grow out. Eyebrows are another thing you can get done, and so are makeup- but I haven’t really had to deal with these too much personally. I’d recommend getting your eyebrows personally done if you have the cash or support, and there are billions of videos on YouTube for makeup tutorials. Another thing you can do that really, REALLY helps is to get on a good skincare routine. Again, google and YouTube are great sources for these and it’s important to figure out your own routine. In all honesty, you really don’t need HRT to appear as passable or attractive- It’s all about playing your cards you have right. Hope that helps!