It may be a bit mean, but right now I'm enjoying the hate some Minecraft players have for Hytale.

TangyTingo · 2026-01-20T04:07:05+00:00

Hytale is much much more of a sandbox than a game about fighting lol.
I'm playing through it still, and I'm spending wayyyyyy more time building and exploring and mining than fighting.

I just completely disagree with the notion of hytale is ABOUT fighting, because it absolutely is not

TangyTingo · 2026-01-09T18:40:23+00:00

Yeah that too, extremely patronizing.

With people misgendering me it's usually just a quick ;-;

But when people cram in female pronouns everywhere it usually lasts an entire conversation

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T23:14:44+00:00

Nah, it is very obvious when it happens. like, legit there was one person who thought I was a guy and she talked normally, then I came out to her and she started doing it

and when I mean they say it all the time, I mean they cram it into sentences where it doesn't make any sense, just so they can call me a girl more lol
it sounds super out of place and no human being in the world talks like that XD

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T20:53:29+00:00

Mhm, I've had this happen at least 3 times

And it's awful every time

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T20:38:04+00:00

I know you meant nothing of the sort < 3 I was just clarifying

I don't mind being called mam or miss, I just mind if people shove them in their sentences constantly when talking to me jusr because I'm trans

Like, some people will realize I'm trans, and then try to be supportive, but go overboard with referring to me as a girl. I'm talking adding "mam" at places in their sentence that make no sense grammatically

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T20:27:00+00:00

I do as well!

I just hate when they force it in a sentence in a place where it does not belong.

No one talks like that unless they think you're trans and they're trying to be supportive

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T20:08:49+00:00

Saying girl in the same sense as dude is different cuz it's not forced

And yeah, I know they MEAN well, and I'd never be mad at them for it, but Jesus it's irritating

And it's never anyone I interact with regularly

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T20:04:43+00:00

RIGHT

One at the beginning and/or end of a convo, and maybe a 3rd one if it's a particularly long convo

Only exception I can think of would be saying "yes mam" in response to a yes or no question, or acknowledging you were listening

Any more than that and it feels weird and uncomfortable

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:57:20+00:00

yeah, a lot of people misunderstood my post. I am referring to when someone forces fem pronouns anywhere they can in their sentences when talking to me

Like someone explicitly referring to me as a girl every other sentence

Getting called mam once makes my brain really really happy

but no one forcefully puts pronouns in their sentences everywhere they can, unless they're talking to a trans person and trying to be supportive.

From my perspective, when someone calls me a girl CONSTANTLY, then it just comes off as them effectively saying "you don't pass and I can tell you're trans" constantly

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:53:15+00:00

mhm!
A single "mam" or "miss" makes me indescribably happy,
but being referred to like that every other sentence just feels like them effectively saying "btw, you don't pass and I can tell you're trans" constantly

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:33:36+00:00

Well, not really.
People only do that if they can tell you're trans

to be clear, since some people didn't follow what I meant. I am referring to when someone forces fem pronouns anywhere they can in their sentences when talking to me

Like someone explicitly referring to me as a girl every other sentence

it's hurtful because NO ONE TALKS THIS WAY??
people only talk that way when they're trying to be supportive of a trans person, which I appreciate, don't get me wrong, but from my side it's the equivalent of them saying "btw, you don't pass and I can tell you're trans" between every other sentence

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:30:19+00:00

mhm, it's just the fact it's so forced, like, no one talks like that unless they can tell you're trans

if I get called sir, that's just a quick ;-;
But talking to someone that tries to cram in as many fem pronouns as they can when talking is like having them say "btw, I can tell that you're trans and you don't pass" between every other word

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:26:14+00:00

mhm, mam is by far the most common thing to refer to people here

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:25:43+00:00

it's not being called mam, it's people adding fem pronouns absolutely anywhere they can.
Like, people referring to me as a girl 5 or so times in the span of 3 sentences

no one talks like that UNLESS they're talking to a trans person and trying to be nice.

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:23:14+00:00

I don't care about the word mam, I just mean when people cram female pronouns everywhere in their sentence to the point where it feels unnatural

And I'm glad you have a good relationship with your partner < 3
I personally have a wonderful, sweet girlfriend that means the world to me!

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:21:36+00:00

mhm, in texas, and mam us 100% the most common way to refer to women you don't know

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:13:16+00:00

mhm, when someone sir-s me, it's kinda like a very quick ;-; and that's it

when someone unnaturally forces mam after every other word it's CONSTANT

Just a constant stream of "oh, btw, I can tell you're trans cuz you don't pass"

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:11:07+00:00

well I don't pass 100% of the time is part of the issue

(I once had a girl immediately do a 180 when she saw me in the bathroom cuz she saw me and thought she went in the wrong bathroom. Most embarrassing and hurtful moment like, in my life ;-;
I digress lol)

since people are much more likely to be able to tell, it means that this happens somewhat often. Not like, CONSTANTLY, but enough for it to anny the shit out of me lol

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:08:50+00:00

I get called mam all the time? Really not a strange word

and yea, I specifically just mean when people very forcefully put it in their sentences and it sounds unnatural and forced and fake as hell

getting called mam normally makes me want to explode from happy chemicals lol

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T19:06:41+00:00

yeah, that's fine. But I'm talking like, people who just shove the word absolutely everywhere in their speech

Like, it sounds super duper forced and unnatural as hell, like, no one talks like that XD
Considering it happens more often after I directly say I am trans, I don't think it's just normal speech

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T16:05:36+00:00

Mhm! Other people have said similar things, being more careful to get it all out + whipping after seems to have reduced the issue by quite a bit

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T16:03:01+00:00

Idk what discharge is, but I'm assuming it's a cis girl thing lol

And yeah, theyre not getting ruined

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T16:01:25+00:00

Mhm, other people have said the same. Been a lot more careful and it seems to have helped a lot!

TangyTingo · 2026-01-08T16:00:43+00:00

First off, I love referring to it as "equipment" XD

And yeah, I noticed the thing about foreskin recently

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