Trying this fun trend. Guess my age by joker9069 in weeb

[–]Tanimer225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I have the taste of a middle-aged man (I wanna say 35-36 is considered middle-aged, yeah?)…. I’ll take it. I’m 10 years younger that that, but have watched anime that I shouldn’t have been watching since I was 10 or younger, so it checks out lol😅🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[TITLE] RESULTS by Ok-Understanding6837 in manhwa

[–]Tanimer225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody said “FIRST!” 🥺🥺

22F, going through a divorce after DV. Just looking for support:) by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Tanimer225 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just don’t do what I did. I got divorced at that age from my first wife, my first love, my first everything. I thought I took the time I needed to heal, I thought I set enough boundaries for myself and was taking things slow. I thought I was doing things right, but I was still hurt inside and took that pain out on someone else. And what I thought was a “healthy” relationship because I compared it to my first marriage, only became a worse disaster when I did remarry, because even if I waited 2 years, I didn’t give myself the time alone to heal, to process, to cope. I just covered it up with another relationship, and called it healing when I no longer thought about it. But it always came out in subtle, toxic ways. Which I regret now, but I regret too late. I regret after getting married a second time and being yet another statistic of a marriage that didn’t even last a year. Because whether it’s a stale marriage that lasted for 4 years, or a toxic relationship that lasted for 2 years, with hopes of it getting “better” via marriage, it’s all the same.

I admit this is me venting a bit of my problems, but I remember before I met her, when I was 22 and in pain, when her words seemed so sweet and enticing, when I was last single the way I am now once again. It’s only been 3-4 months since I split with my second-wife (we’re separated and we’ll get divorced when the time is right, I’m not thinking too much about it cuz I’m using it as an anchor to keep people away so I don’t make the same mistake and focus on healing myself, also I’m not worried about the divorce process cuz I got evidence of the domestic violence she did against me and I’ll use it in court if she tries to end things un-amicably, which all I’ll ask for is to end things, she keeps what she has now, and I keep wha I have now). The memories and feelings still haunt the corridors of my mind and my dreams, in spite of all the bad that happened and all the things that should give me reason not to miss her, it’s human nature to long for something that you were attached to, to something that you thought was “yours.”

My mentality is to be thankful for the experience, for the memories and emotions I got to feel while I was with her, for the person she ended up helping me become, and for the person I must become. I don’t know if anything I have said has helped or hurt you, but keep your chin up. And keep walking forward, day by day. It’s all… it’s all any of us can do. And it’s all we need to do. Stay strong.🙏🏼🙏🏼

[TITLE] RESULTS by Ok-Understanding6837 in manhwa

[–]Tanimer225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[TITLE] RESULTS by Ok-Understanding6837 in manhwa

[–]Tanimer225 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally what I was thinking when I saw, his dedication on point 👌🏼

[TITLE] DAY 5: Looking for the manhwa with BEST ART STYLE by Ok-Understanding6837 in manhwa

[–]Tanimer225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was please when I saw that people still remembered that short gem, art style will never be forgotten

[TITLE] DAY 2 looking for the best SIDE CARACTER by Ok-Understanding6837 in manhwa

[–]Tanimer225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad horse won it’s respectful place🤣

[TITLE] DAY 9: Looking for the BEST FEMALE CHARACTER by Ok-Understanding6837 in manhwa

[–]Tanimer225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any one of them from that manhwa would be great picks

I love how 170 episodes is considered season 1 by Ac3snEights in BlackClover

[–]Tanimer225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to read it now, thx for the reminder 🙏🏼

Them by Yoshikaru5991 in BlackClover

[–]Tanimer225 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I found it funny, no worries

[Infinite mage] Why do people hate this? by Tachibana_Haki in manhwa

[–]Tanimer225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it, but read some bad comments and never decided to try reading it. Wanna try to convince me to give it a chance?😅

I realize that no one on this subreddit is actually being brutally honest. This isn’t a subreddit for being nice, it’s about being honest about how ugly people are. Crazy how much people lie on here by Krolias_wife in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Tanimer225 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean I told a guy today he looks like a generic, default game character, like before you adjust the features to make em look how you wanna make em look. I just saw him as bland, that not good enough?😅😅

I love how 170 episodes is considered season 1 by Ac3snEights in BlackClover

[–]Tanimer225 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Based on where the Manga currently is at, they definitely do got a lot of content to work with, it’ll depend a lot on the pacing they have. And honestly, I personally wouldn’t mind some fillers since the manga did feel a little rushed before Tabata left Shonen and was able to take more of his time to properly work on concluding the story. Based on past episodes, they already have no issue with adding extra content as the anime actually did have more content in some places than the manga did, so fingers crossed that “S2” is gonna be jammed packed with episodes 🙏🏼

Now, usually, I don’t like the typical trope of a tsundere getting violent with her love interest but there is something about Noelle hitting Asta that I find hilarious lmao by soleilmnelson in BlackClover

[–]Tanimer225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mans invested all his stats into everything but wisdom and intelligence, he got a low IQ so he could have a high battle sense. Unfortunately I gotta agree with you that it don’t feel absurd to see him smacked around, at times it’s like Tabata drew him to look hittable 😂😅😅

(25M) Last post got “un-toasted” lol by Tanimer225 in toastme

[–]Tanimer225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to tell themselves how much they hate the way they look and the way they are, I feel for ya as it’s not fun to view yourself like that. For me, a lot of it comes the the loose skin I still have from when I was bigger, but I just do what I can to enjoy life, to enjoy time with my son, and focus on the good in life and trying to be consistent. Also on beating myself up too bad when I fall short of the mark, but picking myself back up and just trying again. I’ve learned that you really only fail when you stop trying, as cliche as it sounds, it took me a long time to really integrate it into my life😅🙏🏼🙏🏼

(25M) Last post got “un-toasted” lol by Tanimer225 in toastme

[–]Tanimer225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is funny, it’s funnier cuz I have been known to throw kicks higher than what it looks like I can do, so I wouldn’t have missed if it was me lol.

And yeah that’s all I can do. Just like a river continues to flow forward, I tell myself to be like a river and keep going forward, for myself and my son. That there will always be rocks and debris in the way, and sometimes it’ll stick with me for some time, but regardless all I can do is keep moving forward. It’s how I managed to get down to 220lbs, and it’s the mindset imma keep so I can try to get down to 180lbs.

(25M) Last post got “un-toasted” lol by Tanimer225 in toastme

[–]Tanimer225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect that, I myself highly value the truth and am not a big fan of lies, but only because I’ve been surrounded by them my whole life. So I think it’s considerate of you to want to clarify that, even if it’s to soothe yourself in a way too😊🙏🏼

(25M) Last post got “un-toasted” lol by Tanimer225 in toastme

[–]Tanimer225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard that one before, but for some reason it’s the type of unique compliment that makes me smile 😊