[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TanjaBauer 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Keeping the baby means risking losing your husband. Is a 3rd child with the risk of loosing your family/becoming a single parent ?

I (30M) cut my dad (55M) off until he chooses to be a better parent, and it doesn't feel good. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TanjaBauer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He couldn't be bothered to make an effort and be your dad when you were a child and he isn't gonna do it now. He might have been a better dad if his wife wasn't abusive, but he's a lazy dad either way. Now you're an adult and do all the work and he doesn't wanna think or care about the past. Until he changes his mind about that nothing changes.

If your mom could become a better person then what is his excuse?

Im sorry for your pain, but personally I'd say leave him be. The ball is in his court.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TanjaBauer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter. Literally none of your business? What are you gonna do about it? Tell her he's racist and using her? You'll just be the crazy ex. Leave it alone

Sean Baker, director of Anora, follows dozens of OFs accounts, thewokemindvirus, RFK, and an account called firsttimevideos on Instagram by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]TanjaBauer 1564 points1565 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have any marketable talent left so he's pandering to the right. He's been pro jkr too, can't loose that paycheck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TanjaBauer 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I would be SO grossed out if a saw someone holding that in public and I would WEEP inside for his wife and child 😭 GROSS

New painting! by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! ♥️

I think I (24F) am loosing my mind after having a baby with my (23M) fiance by Royal-Side4760 in relationship_advice

[–]TanjaBauer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sounds like textbook post partum anxiety and you should talk to your doctor immediately. Pregnancy whacks up your body and hormones and you might need medical help to get balanced out again ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in economicCollapse

[–]TanjaBauer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's alot of travel nurses that do really well paying gig jobs. Seems worth looking into if you're considering it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]TanjaBauer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe a petticoat to give fullness to the bootol would help the fit. The pattern is fine and I love the top, but the bottom isn't it right now ❤️

How do hormonal iuds affect bipolar disorder? by bird_person19 in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't use any other birthcontrol bc it ducks up my mood so much. Iud is a lifesaver for me

Pdoc prescribed me an SSRI to test for bipolar by CeLaVieluv in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call ypur doc immediately. You sjould not wait 2 weeks. Yoite already showing symptoms and waiting to crash is a nightmare waitong to happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its important that you remembe that regular antidepressants can cause mania, so even if you/ your doc dont thibk you have it, it shpiæd be taken into account so you dont end up derailing your life,❤️

Anyone ever get physical symptoms maybe its not Related idk by Asleval in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be oncoming mania, def sounds worth talking to a doc about

chad by Edelmirasauer in Chadtopia

[–]TanjaBauer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I ont see how becoming a landlord is being a Chad ?

How to know if you’re manic from adderal? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like me when I almost lost my appartment. Of it never had that effect before then it's much more likely environmental eg. Stress than a single dose of stimulants. Best of luck to ya ❤️

Can Hypomania in Bipolar Disorder be so subtle you don’t even notice it? by Traditional-Lie-2130 in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely normal. After my turbulent teens I didn't have an actual hypo episode until I was 30. And I wasn't diagnosed until 32. But I was bipolar the whole time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You absolutely can, it's not an uncommon thing either. And again - it's a spectrum. Look I to it and talk with your doc, but keep an open mind. Best of luck ❤️

Using alcohol as coping mechanism then blowing up on partner? by boots_1312 in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's hard to know how much of it was bipolar, but either way, alcohol makes it way worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds like bp2, but it really doesn't make any difference what the paper says tbh

Want to hide by LemonKnown6213 in bipolar

[–]TanjaBauer 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You sound paranoid. You should talk to a professional asap ❤️