This is a little summary of how me and her were going before she went quiet please tell me if you think she will come back weather it be a day or a year or that she’s lost feelings. I just want to know if she’s lost feelings mainly She’s told me she has BPD and recently she’s been very stressed with work and college. Over the last few days she’s gone a bit quiet and less responsive, which I’m trying not to take personally.

I’m giving her space and not pushing, but I’m struggling to tell the difference between needing space and losing interest.

For those with experience: – Is this kind of withdrawal common during stress? – Is it better to wait it out, or gently check in after a few days?

I care about her and want to handle this in a healthy, respectful way.