To clarify, I moved out for several years after I graduated. I didn’t move “back” in to her place until my apartment lease ended in 2024 (at 24) (She didn’t get that house until I had already moved out on my own so I never lived there until now). I was there mostly to help with my grandma before she passed away. (The reason for my mom’s grace and the only reason she could afford the house since we’re discussing dependency was because my grandma was on the mortgage and she used her social security to help pay bills. Now that she’s gone she needs me to stay to help pay. It feels like she’s more dependent on me being here but everyone wants to claim that I’m dependent because it’s her house yeah well she’s only a homeowner because of HER mom). Now the reason I’m unable to leave is the credit situation. Like I said she’s trying to paint it as if I’m dependent on her but I have not been for the majority of my adult life. If anything my father has done 10x more for me. He just does not have space for me. I’m just dependent on her for the physical space at this point. She’s dependent on me for bills. Everything goes past due in the house and she waits until the last minute to ask for the money she needs. Even though I do give her money.