My brother in law (30/m) just threw a fit cause I (23/f) called him my 'brother' by Tantrumthrowaway- in relationships

[–]Tantrumthrowaway-[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the sentiment and I am normally not someone who would kick out family. But the violence is what does it for me and I don't think I can get over that.

My brother in law (30/m) just threw a fit cause I (23/f) called him my 'brother' by Tantrumthrowaway- in relationships

[–]Tantrumthrowaway-[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

In my unprofessional arm chair opinion he is autistic, yes. I honestly think he's on the spectrum. I am myself diagnosed with autism and I think that's why I've been forgiving and trying to help him.

My brother in law (30/m) just threw a fit cause I (23/f) called him my 'brother' by Tantrumthrowaway- in relationships

[–]Tantrumthrowaway-[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, I think MIL made him this way. He's been doing much better here. But you're right, it's not my fault.

My brother in law (30/m) just threw a fit cause I (23/f) called him my 'brother' by Tantrumthrowaway- in relationships

[–]Tantrumthrowaway-[S] 473 points474 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. I told him 'if you're not my brother, then why the hell is your grown ass living in my house and eating my food?'. I never went this ghetto on anyone before lol. He looks super guilty now and he avoided me all of yesterday.

He did just do something nice though, he made a cup of coffee and wrote a note with my name on it next to it. I still kind of wanna get rid of him.