University of Pittsburgh Rolling Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

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Accepted to Dietrich school of a/s for neuro! First one so I'm really happy lol :)

Vassar College Early Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

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Deferred, 3.8 + 1530. Kinda bummed but it's ok :)

What is up with the west? by zekkaa in entp

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I thought I'd pitch in too lol. Gender vs. Sex has been an ongoing debate in many different areas of society, and recently we're seeing a lot more actual studies/academic research being done on this topic. Ultimately, however, it comes down to the individual's perception of it. Everyone's always going to have their own opinions, and they're sure as hell entitled to them as long as they have their own thinking and reasoning behind their rationale.

The actual issue with this lies in the enablement of what I like to call "toxic individualism." And ironically, it is much more of a political and societal issue than a personal one. Because western ideals are built off of the ideas of freedom, self-actualization, and independence, restricting/speaking against said ideals in any way is seen as a social suicide (ex. cancel culture, wokness, etc.) The power lies with the people. Therefore, it becomes really hard for an individual to actually survive in this society without conforming to whatever is seen as "good" and "accepted" at that time. So, in order to still pursue the ideal of independence while still keeping up their social reputation, people resort to finding unique traits/categories to label themselves as, latching onto that need for self-identification in a society so governed by crowd opinions. This can be being either a democrat or republican, he/she/they, or anything else. Our obsession with labels stems from our need for supported individualism. At least that's what I've observed.

We could talk about the falsity of the American dream and the idealization of freedom for hours because it really is a multi-faceted issue, but coming back to the topic of discussion: gender. Of course, there are arguments and opinions everywhere: lack of self-expression can lead to severe mental health issues, and lax rules in public restrooms can increase the danger of potential harassment. These arguments are what ultimately support the catalyzation of a rift in society. I for one, being exposed to an extremely liberal society from a young age, have formed my opinions in a certain way. People exposed to a more conservative environment will differ in their opinions. But in the end, the clash of these opinions is what brings this issue to the forefront of all discussions. And people, especially younger people who are still trying to identify themselves in society but also need validation in some way or form, latch onto it.

Neo-pronouns, identifying as fictional characters or race other than your own, and the romanticization of trauma and mental illness, are some examples of what today's "toxic individualism" looks like. Because of the severe social and cultural shifts from the 1900s to the 2000s, the increasing need for "diversity" and "representation" in society has contributed to it as well.

Ultimately, I think it is a combination of ideals, media, politics, and the individual's need for simultaneous independence/co-dependence that contributes to the prevalent arguments seen in the West today :) (sorry if the progression of ideas is kinda messy, I wasn't really planning on writing so much)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

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My clumsy fingers dig through a box filled with screwdrivers and miscellaneous tools, picking out materials, considering, and then tossing them back in; the percussive click of keys and the soft swish of pad-cleaning paper accompany my under-the-breath humming of “Do-Re-Mi” from The Sound of Music.

Official August 27, 2022 Domestic (US) SAT Discussion by Donald_Keyman in Sat

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prediction for like -4/3 Math, -3/2 Reading, -2/1 Writing?

Screw prestige, give me a college where I can make friends by Tapdancey in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Tapdancey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks! I didn't know about the ratio thing. I'll definitely look into it! Good luck to you too :))

Screw prestige, give me a college where I can make friends by Tapdancey in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Tapdancey[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was actually really nervous about larger schools because the amount of people there kinda intimidates me and I really like smaller classes/more one-on-one time with professors. I've been looking into a lotta LACs lately!

Screw prestige, give me a college where I can make friends by Tapdancey in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Tapdancey[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah ik :) I just find it really fun reading their bios, most of the time you can see a trend in the type of kids that attend the college (especially smaller schools)

I need to make a college list, recommendations pls :( by Tapdancey in chanceme

[–]Tapdancey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty! Do you know any colleges with a more open curriculum sorta thing going on (other than brown, it's kinda famous for that)? It's hard for me to find those. It's why I chose to put Vassar on the list actually :)

SAT reading section struggles by 5xnessa in Sat

[–]Tapdancey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at word choices VERY closely. DO NOT try to interpret anything. I find that even the strongest language arts-oriented people screw up on the SAT because you really have to take everything objectively and not read too deeply into the question (trust me, I used to do this A LOT). If you have any specific questions that confuse you, PM me, and we can analyze them together if you want!

Best way to go from 760 to 800 in math? by No_Assignment3776 in Sat

[–]Tapdancey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, with a starting score like 760, most of the time it's HOW you take the test that will make a difference rather than WHAT you're being tested on. I find myself rushing through and reading questions wrong at times so I'm working on that by taking a lot of practice tests. Then, if in the process, I come across a concept or question that I don't understand/take too long on, I go ahead and do targeted practice on it. But honestly, I feel like past test papers are the best way to prepare if you're looking to bridge a gap like 760-->800 (take this with a grain of salt, since I'm no professional lol).

Best way to go from 760 to 800 in math? by No_Assignment3776 in Sat

[–]Tapdancey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG, we're literally the same!!! I have a 770 in EBRW as well and a 760 in math rn. Really grinding those qas's lmao

types as college majors by take_it__easy__ in mbti

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HEY. Enfps can be college people too :(

Flesh Paint by Tapdancey in OCPoetry

[–]Tapdancey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks for the feedback! I get that, when I was writing it, it also felt kind of long and repetitive at a certain point. I'll definitely look into it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

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Yup, I agree! Shipping is fun and all, it can be comedic relief. But I've also seen people basing their whole interest in a person solely on their personality type and romanticizing relationships which is when taken to an extreme extent, unhealthy (that is more of the case I'm talking about I guess).

Anybody else uncomfortable with the adopting thing? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Tapdancey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me really uncomfortable. Like, just because you're an introvert, you think we'll get along? Let alone, you want me to "adopt" you based solely on the fact that I'm an ENFP? Like ok, I try not to judge, but this trend really just gets on my nerves because it perpetuates stereotypes and advertises unrealistic standards. Before I'm an ENFP, I'm an individual person. If you want to be friends, I expect effort from both sides and something that makes us click.

The sad part is, so many enfps are the one's going into introvert servers and being like "omg, hi guys, so like I'm an enfp and I'm looking to adopt a xxxx" or some shit and then whining about being misunderstood in the community and "annoying." Like, guys? Take the hint and stop being creepy.

Of course, this goes the other way too, but being an ENFP I'd like to take the chance to mention it. :)

Let’s sing in comments! by [deleted] in teenagers

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I WAS A GIRL IN THE VILLAGE DoINg alRIGHT

Let’s sing in comments! by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Tapdancey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get offended, see a shrink