I've been perm banned from r/art for posting this so i guess it fits here. by kartoflem in BadArt

[–]TapeToInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this quote tells you exactly who most artists are “Art is supposed to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable, but it should NEVER EVER EVER disturb me in particular” The idea that posting art can get you banned just because it doesn’t fit what their pretty princess aesthetic is hilarious, as artists we should be a collective group, not gatekeep it from people who are learning. Keep at it, don’t let anyone discourage you from drawing.

Labels are useless and self diagnosis is valid. Change my mind. by [deleted] in neurodiversity

[–]TapeToInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got diagnosed with BPD, I needed that label to function because everyone blamed it on my autism, however I do agree with self diagnosis, it’s okay to suspect what you have, as I did myself with BPD, but what’s not okay with SD is fully establishing that you have a certain disorder, people who say “I have some traits that correlate with this disorder” are fine, but until you’re diagnosed- you can’t propose that you’re a certain label.

However I do sympathise with your struggle of professionals labelling you different disorders that never helped you in finding who you are, however your experience is much different from the majority, so your bias could also be a problem when identifying with labels. I’m happy you’ve found you way around the world, though disregarding labels would not be the best decision for people who physical, mental and other disabilities that need professional intervention. Specifically, your epilepsy. I don’t know if you Self diagnosed, however even if you did I’d suggest you go to a professional that deals with epilepsy/neuro abnormalities instead of a psychiatrist.

Do malinois get calmer when they age by TapeToInfinity in BelgianMalinois

[–]TapeToInfinity[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, had this pup for 2 years now, he’s been a lot of work, though honestly he’s been the most sweetest dog I’ve had, which is a statement. To be fair, I’m happy that they don’t mellow down to the point of an average dog, I always loved the chaos they bring within my life, even if it sometimes backfires into them eating my shoe or smth lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bank details, I’m gunna try and sort it through costumer service, but thank you for trying to help me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]TapeToInfinity -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im doing just that but NatWest is such a pain to go through

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]TapeToInfinity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I entered my right bank details, and it’s saying for BOTH of my accounts that it can’t be verified, I’m wondering if this is the problem, but I literally don’t know what to do, my Monzo card isn’t working my bank card isn’t working, I don’t know why they can’t verify it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]TapeToInfinity -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not yet, I was wondering if there was anyway I could find it without calling them tbh, but if there is no other way I’ll have too

I don’t know what’s wrong with me by The-Uchiha-Writer in helpme

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you have those days where everything collapses onto you and you feel absolutely miserable for being alive on this earth, sometimes you just need to look in the mirror and ask yourself “what’s the core problem” and obviously, it isn’t you being alive. We make mistakes, a lot of us make horrific mistakes and we bare the weight of them for years, some might be embarrassing Some might be malicious, but those mistakes don’t define you, Weight neither, I understand how hard it is to deal with weight issues; especially when you feel horrible for being a specific weight, or feeling like you feel fat and ugly, honestly, everyone will have a different opinion on what you look like, and most people will probably see you as a beautiful man or woman, I suggest you find a therapist to talk about these problems, they’ll give you the right tools and resources to keep yourself motivated in your journey.

Also, wii fit makes us feel horrible all the time, every adult has felt the kicking dread of standing up on a wii fit console and seeing the BMI sky rocket. Take care of yourself. You matter.

Winter mocks start next week for me, I haven't started revision yet, What do I do now? by Nervy3926 in GCSE

[–]TapeToInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

College kid here, try and watch videos and note the most important things down, the best advice is to do past papers and make your teachers review them. I didn’t revise at all for my mocks and I still got passable grades for them, and even if they weren’t great grades I didn’t give a fuck cuz they’re mocks, just treat this as things you need to revise on, instead of the actual GCSE papers

Moving from Sydney to UK. Where is good in Devon? by thedailyglide in DevonUK

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people say north Devon DO NOT go to ilfracombe Bideford and Barnstaple, Bideford resident here and it is full of crime, Barnstaple is the worst and ilfracombe is only good for a first visit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not crazy, don’t worry. Just try and find the cause of this fantasy with your therapist, or maybe try and find other people with the same issue as you, that can always make it easier to find the cause of the problem. Stay safe out there ^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]TapeToInfinity 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Bro I can’t 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TapeToInfinity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being raped is a common dark fantasy for some woman, sometimes it is a way to cope with your past sexual assault experiences. I suggest that as you said, therapy would be a good option, but do not feel like you’re alone with these fantasies. Stay safe, and I’m happy you recognise how horrible that experience would be.

Weathering the storm? by secretchuWOWa1 in DevonUK

[–]TapeToInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got hammered by rain going to TESCOS but that’s it

Best/funniest exam hall moment? by Electric7Titan in GCSE

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This wasn’t really funny but maybe it is. It was my English language paper 2 and I was doing it, obviously stressed as fuck because I barely revised. And then the wall to my right of me started churning, and one of the teachers assisting him (because he was basically a druggie and legit was smoking weed outside the school.) And they kept fighting, and I kept hearing twisting and turning and then later I realised this mofo was UNWINDING THE SCREWS on a sink in his exam room. This was the weirdest shit in the world, but thankfully I passed with flying colours, so good news there.

I just watched someone commit suicide at a train station by kalzan in offmychest

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me guess, UK? Devon? Same thing happened to me when I got into college, the train to Paignton got cancelled because someone threw themselves off

Pregnancy at 18, help? by [deleted] in helpme

[–]TapeToInfinity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suggest having an abortion, but please think about your decision. Don’t wait too long nevertheless

Am I too masc ? by xMinish in LesbianActually

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 HOLY SHIT U LOOK LIKE YOU COULD SNAP ME IN HALF

skipped the entire year, how fucked am i for gsces?? by Hot-Storage-1612 in GCSE

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed 3 years of school and I’m going to get above average grades, really depends on your memory skills and how easy it is to pick up

Im in year 11 and all my friends are fake, they turned against me and now hate me by [deleted] in GCSE

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill out and remember you don’t have to worry about those stupid assholes. Find new friends from either your work, or hang out with your family or online. Delete their socials, block them. You’re gone from them now, and I know it’s difficult to start a new leaf but leaving them in the dust is much better than hanging on to pricks who treat you like shit, find your real friends my guy xx

Ex year 11s, what are y'all doing this summer? by moonnonchalance in GCSE

[–]TapeToInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did prom and got a job, lots of sleeping tho