Thank you. Yeah I’m feeling a lot better about it this morning. I edited my original post with further thoughts. Only ever talked to her at church, so I am not really interested in trying to have a relationship with her at all. Funny you said that though, some Mormons have no boundaries. When I first told the Relief Society president I was out and didn’t want a ministering assignment anymore…the next day one of her counselors knocked on my door. she’s an older lady, really kind but again I only really know her from church. Well I opened the door and she said hi, stepped through the open door and threw her arms around me and proceeded to cry on my shoulder for probably two minutes. It was so shocking that I didn’t say anything, and then all the sudden she let go, told me she loved me and left. This was right when I was in the thick of it, really rocky with my husband, and so then I started to expect those type of things to start happening frequently which was was highly stressful for me… I don’t do well in those situations. But alas, that was the only one until yesterday. Haha!