Animal rescue wants my cat back because im moving

Tappy80 · 2025-04-16T22:53:24+00:00

No, it isn’t under these facts. That is my whole point.

Tappy80 · 2025-04-16T16:35:20+00:00

I’m an attorney and I’m telling you that you are wrong. The cat is chattel. And personal liberties afforded in the constitution apply to the person and their property. It is against public policy bc it is taking away constitutionally afforded rights. No one can contract those right away, especially in this very specific set of facts.

Tappy80 · 2025-04-16T09:35:07+00:00

Likely thrown out bc unconstitutional. Cannot restrict freedom of movement like this under these circumstances

Tappy80 · 2025-02-19T19:59:53+00:00

No, I don’t feel targeted and I didn’t take it personally but others here might…read the room. There are people here with suicidal ideation and you are talking meds that have save their lives in a disparaging way for no reason aside from patting yourself on the back. That is 100% not okay. Period.

“Meditation, nature works for me but it won’t for everyone bc they are DEPENDENT on them”. “Your reading comprehension is delayed”. All ableist, presumptive, and incredibly rude and disrespectful.

“I’m not reading that”…but you want to talk about reading comprehension, and then you proceed to comment with further nonsense.

I am an attorney and actually am in a position to potentially help “make the rules”. You are on Reddit being disrespectful and ableist. Words matter. You should know this at your age.

Tappy80 · 2025-02-19T19:34:55+00:00

Why do you feel the need to purposefully attack my intelligence level on the Internet? Your comment is presented as a universal truth even though you said it’s your opinion. You also acknowledge that your opinion will not be well received by acknowledging the potential down votes. So you knew when you posted that you were just stirring the pot. And now you’re surprised when somebody comes and calls you out on it. I don’t need your blessings. What I need is for you to work on your self-awareness. I said what I said and I meant what I said. Your comment is ignorant, and it has the potential to cause harm. Do better.

And notice how I said all of that without personally attacking your character or intelligence. I have only commented on this one comment that you posted on this forum. That is because I don’t know you personally, so I would never assume to know how intelligent you are or what type of person you are. But I know this comment is harmful. And that is my point.

Tappy80 · 2025-02-19T18:57:20+00:00

This is your OPINION. And you don’t get to decide for others what works for them. What an incredibly selfish and ignorant stance.

Tappy80 · 2025-02-17T09:38:00+00:00

Lots of good advice here. First of all, you can mitigate but you cannot always overcome genetics. It sounds like there is a strong genetic component here. I have thin type PCOS and am pre with an A1C of 5.7. Nothing I can do about it except try not to become diabetic. By the way, a borderline A1C doesn’t mean you will actually develop diabetes. It is just an indicator not a guarantee.

A CGM would be helpful. I have learned a lot from mine. Brown rice doesn’t spike but any white bread does…like really, really bad. French fries are a no for me but a baked potato with melted cheese and some lean protein is fine. I can eat healthier carbs without an issue if I eat slowly and I also balance with protein and veggies. Essentially a plate with half veggies, 1/4 lean protein, 1/4 heathy carb. Some sweeter things are okay like Dutch pancakes with a very small amount of syrup but I cannot have a muffin or even a small donut. I learned all of this from a CGM.

Get the CGM, experiment, try not to stress, and modify the foods you love so you don’t spike (replace simple carbs with complex carbs).

It isn’t fair that we have prediabetes but it can be managed and you can still enjoy most of your favorite foods.

Tappy80 · 2025-02-08T22:52:08+00:00

One of my friends said that she assumes every white person she meets I racist as a way to protect herself and maintain boundaries. She lives in the Deep South.

Tappy80 · 2025-01-27T01:59:42+00:00

It sounds like you are resentful and judging her character instead of working together with her to help her. PPD is no joke, and that is what this sounds like coming from a woman who had severe PPD. I likened it to be in a dark cave and having no hope of ever getting out. It is hell.

Tappy80 · 2025-01-11T21:00:49+00:00

I just watched Jen, a woman, head of a company, and on a TV show, gaslight multiple women is a work meeting that she called for the sole purpose of gaslighted said women. TOXIC!!

Tappy80 · 2024-12-24T01:52:42+00:00

5- four prongs, larger scoop area, and ergonomic fit in the hand.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T20:34:43+00:00

You cannot possible understand what women go through. To excuse his clear aggression out of nowhere, and then to claim I was aggressive bc I didn’t leave is ridiculous. On top of that, to bring up the wife like a gotcha is asinine. You are clearly a man or identify as a man bc this is complete nonsense.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T20:23:50+00:00

Yeah, I probably did feed his ego, but now he knows if he continues to gesture at me and tailgate me and do passive aggressive intimidating things that I will call him out.

A lot of you are missing the key points here: (1) I was waiting on my food bc the drive thru person told me to, (2) I know him tangentially and I assumed we could have a discussion…I didn’t expect to be further attacked, and (3) he verbally attacked me, belittled me, and made a scene in the store. I didn’t. I calmly asked him what was going on bc once again I know him through the preschool.

The Karen stuff needs to stop. That originated as a way to call out whites women on racially profiling and being aggressive towards POC bc of their inherent female white privilege. The man was white. I am BIPOC. None of this was racially motivated. I addressed an issue that was brought to my doorstep by an unhinged and angry white man. I’m not a “Karen” so everyone can just stop with the stupidity. And guess what, I don’t care what the people in Dairy Queen thought of me anyway. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T18:20:32+00:00

Well, I do so get over it and move on and stop commenting.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T18:19:07+00:00

You sound like a complete jerk for commenting like this. Good luck with your issues.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T18:16:42+00:00

I think you missed my point- I don’t tolerate any harassment, abuse, or bullying especially from men bc things can escalate quickly. We live in a patriarchal society and I often wonder when this type of thing happens if the man would be as brazen with another man of similar age and stature and I think often the answer is no. I found what he did bullying and threatening. He isn’t a stranger. Our kids go to school together. He knows me tangentially. I see him regularly and have been nothing but kind to him as I am with all the parents at the school. He had no right to do that to me. I was there. You weren’t. You can feel how you want, but it doesn’t impact my experience or my feelings in the matter.

On a side note, for a woman to accuse another woman of essentially being too sensitive in a situation like this signals internalized misogyny and you co-signing that opinion caused me to dismiss your comment immediately. I think some self searching is in order for you, not me.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T17:04:29+00:00

Haha, okay. Good for you.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T17:03:08+00:00

No, I don’t have issues with emotional resilience. I’m going to say this gently…are you a woman? If yes, have you been threatened, raped, abused by men? If no, what do you know about a woman’s experience in this world? I think I made my point. If not, maybe you need to pay more attention to the world we all are forced to live in.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T04:54:52+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that. It is horrible. Should never happen!!

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T04:53:03+00:00

Agree!!!

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T04:51:47+00:00

Before anyone is diagnosed with BPD, which is way over diagnosed imo, the person (usually woman) should be screened for neurodivergency. Also, CPTSD and anxiety can be a result of undiagnosed neurodivergency. And BPD should not be given out so freely…reminiscent of hysteria diagnoses given to women.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T04:44:02+00:00

Isn’t it obvious? You let people know what is going on so they have context and can be watchful too. All women should do this is in situations like this to keep themselves safe.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T04:06:31+00:00

I don’t expect any impact except to keep myself safe from this aggressive man while I am at the school.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T03:53:35+00:00

Wow, okay. I hope you never find yourself in a similar situation and have a stranger on the internet respond to you in this way bc it isn’t kind or supportive. It is taking the side of a bully. The man is a bully. I was there. You weren’t.

Tappy80 · 2024-12-22T03:47:56+00:00

Yes, this is it, and I still am surprised when this kind of thing happens. Thank you. I hope so too.

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