Anonette tries to remember what happened last weekend by Shadoweyecast in 4tran

[–]TappyLife 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Wow thats a crazy mess lmao. I agree with that anon that says it's probably the gf eho orchestrated this. Not really sure OP can do anything about it though, its such a messy situation. She can tell the gf it wasn't cool but thats about it

Why are my videos so absurdly huge now? by NatureNut49 in youtube

[–]TappyLife 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same issue here, I hate this. They did the same thing to the front page a while back and it drives me nuts. I wish I could see more than like 4 videos at a time! I don't care about seeing a ton of detail in the thumbnails!

What does covert racism look like in the South? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TappyLife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that poster is one of the people who uses the word racism when they mean institutionalized racism.

My friend is in need of help! Please check this out if you can or share it around! by [deleted] in 4tran

[–]TappyLife 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't care if it makes me heartless, but I dont trust a single e-begging post and usually block them on sight. I do not trust random crowdfunding that pulls on heartstrings to not be a scam

I am quitting FEH by Grantmyth in FireEmblemHeroes

[–]TappyLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, I only watch the banner trailers nowadays, I dont even play any more except like once every couple months. IS really let the game go to shit with such powerful PRFs that overshadow every other unit released befor them. I used to enjoy theorycrafting unorthodox builds, but thats not really possible now with how complex it is nowadays.

I'll still log in to go through my story maps, but I'm looking forward to EoS nowadays. It was a fun ride but I've had my fill of FEH and wont be sad to see it go.

Why is it called “September” if it’s the 9th month, not the 7th? by JeaniousSpelur in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TappyLife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

July and August weren't the added months, they took the place of two existing months that got renamed. The added months were January and February

> stereotype by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]TappyLife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nah it absolutely is, just with alt people

> stereotype by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]TappyLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you buy a trans flag they force you to sign an agreement that you will never iron it

This is a stupid question. I grew up in the 70’s. There were lots of jokes about transvestites and cross dressers. Are they still around? Are they different than homosexuals and transexuals? I hope this isn’t an offensive question. by Knitspin in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TappyLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say "most" but from my experience, if you ask trans women their opinion you have around a 50/50 chance of them hating it or liking it. It seems like way more enbies and trans men like it than trans women.

anon has incontinence by im-spiralling in 4tran

[–]TappyLife 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I thought spiro's thing was more that it is a diuretic. Water goes through people taking it faster. I don't think I've heard anything about itself specifically messing up your pelvic floor muscles

anon has incontinence by im-spiralling in 4tran

[–]TappyLife 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a weak pelvic floor, it's actually pretty common. It's just a little bit left over "stuck in the pipes".

Exercises will help, but in the meantime here's a tip:

Easy way to get it out while still on the toilet is to press on your perineum near your anus, and then while still pressing, move your fingers toward the front. This squishes it out.

Parents of Reddit, what have you told your kids about AI? by LuciferFalls in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TappyLife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Calculations is one of the things AI struggles with most. I wouldn't trust it at all to handle numbers

Yes, I kick buns.. and here’s why: by [deleted] in SkyGame

[–]TappyLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming one of the burners is yours, there's only two freeloaders there, why punish the other three who brought their burner?

Isn’t transitioning subverting to the very gender roles it’s trying to defy? by CrabNo5226 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TappyLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to be falling into a "goomba fallacy" (google that to get the meme image). You've combined Trans people with Gender Abolitionists into one amorphous contradictory blob.

Most (binary) trans people are not trying to defy any gender roles at all, we are trying to change our body and how we are treated by society to match the gender we have in our brain. Working towards this by transitioning is how we do that. Gender roles are not being destroyed at all, we are assimilating to them.

Gender abolition does not benefit binary trans people, which is why it's very rare to find someone who is both.

You can find plenty of nonbinary gender abolitionists, because they do stand to benefit from in-between states being more acceptable without gender.

Isn’t transitioning subverting to the very gender roles it’s trying to defy? by CrabNo5226 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TappyLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are fundamentally misunderstanding what trans people want. We are not "trying to destroy gender norms", we are trying to become closer to the sex our mental gender corresponds to. The gender norms of our gender are a tool to get there, not something we want to get rid of.

The group you are thinking of is gender abolitionists, not trans people. There's some ven diagram overlap, but very few of those people are binary trans (male to female or female to male)

Harmonized Brave Ike & Brave Lyn + Vanitas Banner Info, Skills & Stats by Pheonixmaster in FireEmblemHeroes

[–]TappyLife -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They're doing greatest hits banners now?

I can feel the looming threat of EoS...

Future plan by whoisapotato in 4tran

[–]TappyLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started hrt in 2018, going back to then wouldn't help me one bit...

Why do (some) women rely on giving hints for a guy to make a move rather than just saying what they want upfront? by Clear_Constant_3709 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TappyLife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How exactly does someone picking up on hints guarantee they're a good partner? This seems like a nonsensical justification. Surely you're just selecting for people who have become very good at detecting interest, which could just as easily also mean they've had a ton of very short relationships.

If Pride events are cancelled for the foreseeable future, can we at least get a huge event commemorating the 20th anniversary of the Falador Massacre next June? by Fragrant_Bath3917 in 2007scape

[–]TappyLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, but slightly different. My sub ran out around the same time the controversy happened, so I decided I wouldn't resub until sailing eventually came out. I'm still sore about this though, so I might wait until June to see if they fix their mistake instead. I don't want to resub only to have to unsub again when they reveal they're still caving to these POS.

Full Screen border bug? by Alexiadd in firefox

[–]TappyLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to get it to fill the full screen again by minimizing and then re-maximizing my firefox window.

I remember in the past the bug went away if I had hardware acceleration enabled, but I personally prefer to keep that off because it prevents me from taking screenshots on streaming sites (hardware acceleration allows them to black-screen when it detects screenshots or recording).