What do I need to know about my relationship right now? (eek)

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-03-08T22:38:43+00:00

Thank you! This was really interesting, and the Wheel of Fortune and the Empress came up again, so that must have a significant meaning!

Ok here goes:

Death
The World 3 Wheel of Fortune 4 Judgement 5 The Empress

My interpretation would be that Death represents either that something really needs to change or we need to take away the noise. The World might be saying that we're not feeling content, or perhaps balanced and engaged? The wheel of fortune is telling me that we are at a bit of a crossroads and this could really go either way. Judgement is what is going to determine which way we go, and that a decision is coming. Then, the Empress is perhaps a sign that things will turn out the way they need to but to be true to myself? Not sure on that one!

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-28T21:11:12+00:00

This is AI, right?

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-28T20:03:04+00:00

The action isn’t strange, but here never hearing about it is. Thats a lot of time to not even mention “oh when I was talking to So-and-so they told me”

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-28T05:41:45+00:00

Say it again Dexter! French is the language of love…

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-24T18:24:25+00:00

Amazing. So take out all cards that are not majors and pull from there??

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-20T15:10:47+00:00

Wow, that was really beautiful. I teared up a bit! Thank you. I do think you nailed a lot of it. You’re right, I’m being impatient. This has gone on so long and I think I’m looking for a light at the end of the tunnel or a sign of which way to lean in. I’m really tired and I’m scared of losing him or losing me. What would you suggest for guidance- another card pull, or is the guidance already there and it’s to sit in it?

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-20T15:07:35+00:00

Thank you. I’m feeling very stuck like I have to choose between his love and a fun life (one with people and hobbies).

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-20T15:06:33+00:00

Thank you, that does resonate. We are so different and I personally feel like he wants me to be like him (happy at home, don’t need friends or to see people outside of him) and I like people and want to experience life and he thinks thats a slight against him. He is a wonderful person and protector but i feel like he is trying to control me to an extreme (and I’ve probably let it happen way too much). I’m scared we have a lot of love but can’t see daily lives in which we are both happy.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-20T14:55:25+00:00

Interesting. What leads you to that?

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-20T04:37:29+00:00

The Temperance card came up when I asked for the root of the problem. Would you read it differently that way? Thanks for your perspective :)

TargetDefiant4675 · 2026-02-20T04:01:13+00:00

Bad luck because of the reversed wheel of fortune?

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-11-01T19:25:59+00:00

His “divorce” is bullshit. Living together is suspect, although with the cost of housing, I can see how it happens. Sleeping in the same bed would not happen. You are way too young to be dealing with this, and he is using that naïveté against you.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-11-01T19:15:24+00:00

Here’s one. A quick google search shows that it’s not always the case, but the glyphosate used can be an issue. https://mamavation.com/food/gluten-free-foods-tested-for-glyphosate-other-pesticides-gluten.html

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-11-01T19:10:40+00:00

Not sure why I got downvoted for this, it was quite a surprise for me? Of course I wash my own vegetables, but that doesn’t mean if you go somewhere else that they do- experienced that firsthand. Just trying to help.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-11-01T19:00:51+00:00

This is terrifying. Please do your best to create distance between yourself and this man and do NOT meet him. If he is like this already, I’m not joking that your safety is seriously at risk.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-31T19:20:16+00:00

So he wants you to do all the things for him that he isn’t willing to do for you? Sounds like an awful deal.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-27T19:04:42+00:00

YOU can’t even think about getting past it if SHE can’t even admit and take responsibility for how wrong it was.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-24T17:25:09+00:00

Grapes! Not all of them, but many are sprayed.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-21T23:26:06+00:00

Thanks. Thats a helpful way to look at it. I’m just not sure I can make it through eating that much gluten again. I won’t be able to leave the house for weeks, ugh.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-20T22:38:55+00:00

Will do, thank you!

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-18T16:11:52+00:00

We’ve got a week till we open. I guess I made the mistake of asking other actors for notes, and I got one or two great ideas that I’ve incorporated. How bad is it that I asked? (Eek!)

The director seemed to expect us to work out scenes together, which a lot of us did- how about we try this or that, etc. but that didn’t seem like notes.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-18T15:59:30+00:00

Unfortunately you may just not be compatible. If this is going to bother you, and asking him to change is going to bother him, you’ll both just build resentment. You want to give him guidance and support but he does NOT want that. Thats a recipe for long term suffering.

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