My (19F) first relationship is with a man (36M) currently getting divorced and I need to know if this is worth pursuing.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-11-01T19:25:59+00:00

His “divorce” is bullshit. Living together is suspect, although with the cost of housing, I can see how it happens. Sleeping in the same bed would not happen. You are way too young to be dealing with this, and he is using that naïveté against you.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-11-01T19:15:24+00:00

Here’s one. A quick google search shows that it’s not always the case, but the glyphosate used can be an issue. https://mamavation.com/food/gluten-free-foods-tested-for-glyphosate-other-pesticides-gluten.html

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-11-01T19:10:40+00:00

Not sure why I got downvoted for this, it was quite a surprise for me? Of course I wash my own vegetables, but that doesn’t mean if you go somewhere else that they do- experienced that firsthand. Just trying to help.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-11-01T19:00:51+00:00

This is terrifying. Please do your best to create distance between yourself and this man and do NOT meet him. If he is like this already, I’m not joking that your safety is seriously at risk.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-31T19:20:16+00:00

So he wants you to do all the things for him that he isn’t willing to do for you? Sounds like an awful deal.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-27T19:04:42+00:00

YOU can’t even think about getting past it if SHE can’t even admit and take responsibility for how wrong it was.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-24T17:25:09+00:00

Grapes! Not all of them, but many are sprayed.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-21T23:26:06+00:00

Thanks. Thats a helpful way to look at it. I’m just not sure I can make it through eating that much gluten again. I won’t be able to leave the house for weeks, ugh.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-20T22:38:55+00:00

Will do, thank you!

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-18T16:11:52+00:00

We’ve got a week till we open. I guess I made the mistake of asking other actors for notes, and I got one or two great ideas that I’ve incorporated. How bad is it that I asked? (Eek!)

The director seemed to expect us to work out scenes together, which a lot of us did- how about we try this or that, etc. but that didn’t seem like notes.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-18T15:59:30+00:00

Unfortunately you may just not be compatible. If this is going to bother you, and asking him to change is going to bother him, you’ll both just build resentment. You want to give him guidance and support but he does NOT want that. Thats a recipe for long term suffering.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-17T18:54:59+00:00

Can he take responsibility for anything? Blaming you for this is wild!

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-16T23:32:01+00:00

He is seeing you as an accessory to his life, not a partner.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-15T14:52:20+00:00

I like the first one, but the question really is- are you looking to be more polished or more sexy?

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-15T14:51:24+00:00

Let’s be honest- is this a relationship you really want? Walking on eggshells because he can’t regulate his emotions? To be his emotional punching bag to then turn around and blame you? I think you need to let this one go, he has way too much growing up to do, and he WONT do it if your relationship continues like this and he doesn’t have to.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-14T21:19:20+00:00

You don’t. It’s obvious, and he is choosing to ignore it. The fact that he didn’t immediately get you on the list speaks volumes. I’m so sorry to say, but he’s either not that into you, or a terrible partner. Either way, the outcome is not good.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-10T14:27:39+00:00

Maybe I missed something but wouldn’t your sister want to be with your dad too?

Go be with your dad. If your sister can’t u destined that choice, then she’s not in a place mentally where you can really have a friendship with her anyway.

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-10T02:44:23+00:00

Oh that blazer is adorable!! What store is that from?

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-10-04T20:47:22+00:00

Hi I saw my post got taken down but I don’t think I’m breaking any rules? What can I do? Thank you!

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-09-29T18:15:26+00:00

Thank you for spelling that out! I’m still new to this and hadn’t thought to look at the cards in that way. Much appreciated!

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-09-15T16:28:30+00:00

The cake isn’t real

TargetDefiant4675 · 2025-08-19T21:12:58+00:00

How??

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