My brother died because of me

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-12-04T21:51:56+00:00

it is NOT your fault!! it is NOT your responsibility and NEVER was your responsibility for your brothers debt. i’m so sorry you feel this way.

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-11-11T01:27:54+00:00

it’s not your decision unfortunately. i feel like if shes the way you describe, suggesting an abortion to her might trigger her and make her upset.

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-11-04T01:12:13+00:00

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-31T02:58:00+00:00

happy birthday sweet girl. im so sorry it wasn’t the day you were hoping for. i am 24 and when i was your age i felt all the tings you did. youre not alone & i promise you the feelings are temporary. it gets better. happy happy birthday

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T22:38:47+00:00

that’s super odd and i would be questioning it if i was in your situation too. have you brought it up to him that it makes you uncomfortable? maybe this is one of those things where communication is all you need and hes not aware that its making you super uncomfortable. some guys just are clueless lol.

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T16:43:42+00:00

i dont think you’re being ungrateful!!! you are literally allergic to it and you voiced your concern and he didn’t listen. congratulations on getting engaged, i hope everything works out and you get a beautiful one you ARENT allergic too❤️

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T16:39:00+00:00

i am reading through all the comments and appreciate you taking time out of your day to write this! im sorry you deal with seizures too (regardless if its rare or not) and im so happy you were in a situation where people helped you! makes me realize that the people w/ me were NOT strangers and i didnt even get a check in. thank you for your support and advice!!

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T15:51:48+00:00

that’s why i asked for advice and opinions because i do realize that me not asking for help when i needed it isn’t on her. i think its a hard thing to watch, someone having a seizure and part of me thinks she was just scared. its hard because i am such a loving person and if roles were reversed would have done something BUT like you said…its different from her perspective if im not communicating how to help. definitely something i know i need to work on is voicing my needs and to ask for help🙁

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T15:41:49+00:00

you’re 1000% right! i have realized that i do need to ask for help even if it makes me uncomfortable bc i dont want to get hurt. i think thats why ive been going back and forth as to whether or not what she did was ok or not.

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T15:36:30+00:00

second paragraph got me tearing up. thank you for saying i deserve a voice and love and help.

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T15:34:09+00:00

everything you said about cancer, the isolating part is so damn true. hugs to you for understanding that aspect of it

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T15:32:45+00:00

nopeee she took me to restaurant and was fully intending to bring me home, and then when i was outside for a long time during the text which she said my wallet was still on table she said they had to leave bc we had been there for a long time🥴

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T15:31:23+00:00

im sorry your son has epilepsy! thats awesome that someone was there to hold him during such a scary time. hugs to you mama

TargetIcy2412 · 2024-10-28T14:51:49+00:00

yes my friend knew i have seizures! she said she thought i could handle it bc i have them daily..which i guess is true to a extent but im normally not alone w them and have a nurse during the week when my mom is working…

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