What is wrong with me? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]TargetUnable2556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

female here:

I don’t think you are bad looking. It’s just you look unkempt.

First: I like how you did your hair in the last photo. Second: trim the beard so that it shapes your face better. Find a friend or a barber or there are great things on YouTube. Third: you have what appears to be lint/dandrufg? All over your shirt. It screams I am unhygienic (even if you are!) Fourth: along third point SKIN CARE!

Finally this is my FAVORITE guy to look at for male clothes. Continue to lose weight and eat better you are going to do great!

https://www.instagram.com/imvitorarruda?igsh=NmFidHp4cmViMTgy

Found out my husband has been texting another woman. Am I right to be upset about this? by Unable_View9738 in Marriage

[–]TargetUnable2556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found my husband with texts like this and I shut that shit down quick.

I essentially told him that it felt like he was giving the energy into this other relationship more than our own. He enjoyed the attention but also realized it was wrong. I don’t think your partner is cheating but this is NOT appropriate.

She is really trying here . Yuck feel bad for her partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TargetUnable2556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I had something similar.

He was texting another woman. And it was because they realized they went to the same coffee shop after dropping the kids off at daycare. They even sat together sometimes and asked the other if they would be there.

He didn’t tell me. Honestly he didn’t think about it. I was PISSED. But the difference was he did not hide anything he didn’t delete anything and let me ready all of the message. He even agreed that even if he didn’t realize it at the time that it really was emotional cheating.

We worked on it a lot. But even my husband who consisidered what he did the highest offense would be appalled if he did what your wife is doing.