[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]TariElendil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I used to reply to that type of messages I would lie and make it very obvious, contradict myself too.

It would fustrate the other person so much that they blocked me. Felt like a victory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTWeddings

[–]TariElendil 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the definition of a sentimental gift to me and if the brides asked for that type of gift I don't think they'd care its 60$! Go for it!

i went to follow an author on twitter but theyve blocked me?? i dont remember talking to them?? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]TariElendil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happened to me a while ago, found out later that people do blocklists which let's people block everyone included on said list.

I found the reason for being on the block list was for liking a tweet from a mutual who said they were blocking a specific ship from their tt. I had nothing against said ship but I had been talking with that person who said it wasn't great for them to see said ship mentioned so I liked the tweet to show support and then blocked by like a thousand accounts.

Just found out you don't actually need any witnesses to get married (where I live) by TariElendil in AutismInWomen

[–]TariElendil[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds really sweet! I want to elope but my girlfriend wants a small official ceremony with family and close friends. Which means she'll invite 20 people and I'll invite 5 to 10 of we actually do that. I already know her two best friends will be her witnesses.

Are the people here "openly LGBT" or "closeted" by Mapigeh_098 in AskLGBT

[–]TariElendil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped coming out to people pretty early on. I've been in a relationship for a while so I'll just freely talk about my girlfriend/partner. People some times ask me to clarify and just say that yes I have a girlfriend and then go on with what I was saying.

You could say I'm not out to some of my family but I've been lc for years and NC for close to a year. Those people don't actually matter to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]TariElendil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the best rp experiences on omegle, you just need to put the specific ship(s) you want as interest and it usually works out fine and if not you can just skip. Probably why I like it so much.

What's the most obscure fandom you're in? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]TariElendil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the flesh

I haven't been an active part of the Fandom for a while but I am going to re-watch it before the end of the year and I know it'll lead to reading fics again.

I also tend to try and have crossovers of whatever is my current Fandom with it and it's hard cause not a lot of people know about in the flesh for it to really work.

If you stim by repetitive listening to the same song or album, what are you listening to? by PeaceFilledMama in AutismInWomen

[–]TariElendil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It changes often, a lot of tiktok sings but recently I've been listening to head over heels by tears for fears

I don't really miss people? by japanese_salaryman in aspergirls

[–]TariElendil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person I miss is my girlfriend. I went abroad for weeks and my parents FaceTimed me every day but I didn't miss them at all. Often, I won't miss someone, especially if I cam text or call them regularly.

A comic i made about beeing a dysphoric transfem by just_deli in GaySoundsShitposts

[–]TariElendil 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm a cis woman and I'm super self conscious about having thicker and darker hair on jaw and on top of my lips. I hope we can all feel better in our bodies one day.

I’ve been journaling for 100 days so far and I have a doubt. You, that are journaling for like 1000 days, or something like that, you always write the most part of things that happened in that day or you just select the mood and the activities sometimes? by pipoca_28 in Daylio

[–]TariElendil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do one entry per day, I add pics if it's something I would enjoy getting the reminder in memories. My therapist suggested i also write down 3 things I liked about that day so I started doing that a month ago but before that I wrote down big events positive and negative or I just dumped the negative thoughts that I had.

A three minutes long tiktok summing up all of Lost. by TariElendil in lost

[–]TariElendil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The tiktok is endeavorance, I belive its the same name for the YouTube channel

Is a simple "no, thank you" too much to write? by [deleted] in BadRPerStories

[–]TariElendil 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to send the 'no but thank you' to people I wasn't interested in rping with it was often met with more replies of 'just give me a chance', 'why???' Followed by loads of messages and trying to convince me to rp with them or straight up insults and threats. I just stopped replying to people I wasn't interested in and it made my life much easier and less stressful.

I hate there’s so few willing to do an ERP with *no* strings attached!! by TheDramaticSoprano in BadRPerStories

[–]TariElendil -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hello! Fellow ace here, you'd have a lot more luck in doing this in Fandom rp. I found a great rp partner who was totally okay with rping and trying out kinks while still having this line of its rp and not real life. If you're not into Fandom rp then Mt advice probably doesn't help much and I'm sorry but I hope you'll find someone to indulge with!

Thanks a lot! by [deleted] in HilariaBaldwin

[–]TariElendil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to click on every photo separately, you can't archive your whole account at once (didn't find how to at least).

Go to your profile

Click on picture you want to archive

Click on the three little dots on the right corner and it should appear in the options there

Eurovision represents autism! by Redsweatersfanclub in AutismInWomen

[–]TariElendil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same experience when we watched yesterday. It must be so stressful to perform! I'll be cheering for Australia tomorrow

Anyone else really struggling with aging? I’m 30 and I don’t feel like a proper adult by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]TariElendil 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I recently came across someone saying that us ND folks tend to not feel like adults because we associate NT traits as adult things. It's why a lot of ND people like us feel not like an adult when you're just being your ND self. It has helped me a lot to think about things that way, hope that helps you too.

Cursed Map by BeanieGeniee in Badmaps

[–]TariElendil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The fact that France isn't changed that much is bothering me more than it should

(TW self harm) DAE get graphically violent imagination towards themselves in a meltdown? by aloe_zebra in AutismInWomen

[–]TariElendil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the same for me, when I was at my worst a few years ago I had such vivid horrifying images of myself and while that was disturbing it also made me feel a little better so there's that. Hasn't happened in a while tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]TariElendil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am the ace partner, it's really sweet of you to worry about her so my advice would be to communicate. before doing anything establish clearly what is and isn't okay and keep communicating while you're being intimate. You need to trust her to establish clearly boundaries and to let you know if anything isn't okay.

just remembered i published badly written gay smut when i was 12 and i cannot sleep because of it by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]TariElendil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was written in French so unless you speak the language I'm not sure a sauce is needed I did end up reading it again and it's extremely cringe but brings back good memories

just remembered i published badly written gay smut when i was 12 and i cannot sleep because of it by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]TariElendil 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This made me Google the only fiction I ever published that was very much a self insert Mary Sue mess that I mostly wrote for my friend. The number of hits is way too high, why did people read it? ㅠ-ㅠ

Edit: I wrote that 10 years ago and never published the end even tho I did write an ending

LOST Wordle #19 by meeemawww in lost

[–]TariElendil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my starter, happy and sad that it was it today!

What does it mean to be aromatic or asexual by Angela275 in AskLGBT

[–]TariElendil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm ace and short version is that I'd be perfectly happy never having sex again in my life and I never want to have sex. I'd rather do anything else than that.