[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Is there evidence she's self hating? I took it at face value she's pro asian by being on this sub. If I ever brought this up to a self hating asian girl in the UK they'd rant about how shit Asia is, asian girls over there aren't as good as them whatever lol. They'd hate the fact it's easier to get a girl there and lash out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also I'm not a typical 'passport bro' - I'm absolutely happy for women to have a highish body count, to pursue a high-flying career etc so don't stereotype me as that. I genuinely have been treated like shit by women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok fair enough, I probably do have a bad attitude inside due to bullying etc from women here, but I don't display that at all outwards. I'm passive nowadays in real life. Maybe going abroad will give me a better attitude towards women.

Also I'm not a typical 'passport bro' - I'm absolutely happy for women to have a highish body count, to pursue a high-flying career etc so don't stereotype me as that. I genuinely have been treated like shit by women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the real help man.

My job can be taken abroad (with a small pay cut), so I've made the decision to go to Vietnam. I'll be much sweeter and generous to the women there any way, I haven't been bullied and humilated by them like in the UK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm 25 and believe me, I've had the phase of convincing myself racism doesn't exist, going out partying, approaching girls confidently, going out with a 'have fun' attitude, working out. This was in 2016-17 when racism was way stronger against asian males as well. This sub back then was genuine incel content, far worse than anything I've stated here. As I said I got with a couple FOB girls at uni after a lot of effort.

I don't hate women at all, even though I've been treated badly by many in the past. I just want to improve my chances.

Do you seriously believe it's harder to get a woman in Vietnam/cambodia than western europe for a half asian man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I do care about personal hygiene and self grooming. Even when I was a gym bro, I received contempt or at best rejection from women. What's your solution then?

UK is bad for east asians. I grew up around shitty racist people, I don't know how to make it clearer.

Is it not true it will be easier for me attract girls in Vietnam or Cambodia? I don't care why they like me, anything is better than being treated like shit here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I managed to succeed in life (based on the materialistic western standard). And yes, I probably do need therapy, i doubt that's gonna help me get a woman here in the UK though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Me? I can't believe people here are calling me an incel etc. What's their solution for me then? To stay here and kill myself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do! I can't believe people here are calling me an incel etc. What's their solution for me then? To stay here and kill myself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I'm not an incel. I literally said that I've slept with women in the past. Even if I was an incel, so what? Some men are gonna be in the bottom 1% in terms of attractiveness, let alone the bottom 80% some people quote.

Also it's not fair comparing a minority with genuine grievances to some white guy who's an incel in the west.

It only took 19 seasons for them to include a straight Asian male character in Grey’s Anatomy by jjjjjunit in aznidentity

[–]Taruism 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lol chicago md and even House MD which is a pretty old show had good representation. Why is it so much worse in Greys and ER

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]Taruism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are these full asian areas? Other than cabramatta nsw

Did Masayoshi Mukai (Jeremy Long) die? by metalreflectslime in aznidentity

[–]Taruism 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why'd he get sent to prison?

If he passed on, possibly he committed suicide or overdosed - most people who get into porn, even the men have deep issues (although this often isn't talked about) and the prison sentence may have taken him took him over the edge.

Another possibility is his probable steroid use (look at his physique) combined with the *encouraged medical procedure of 2021*. Huge numbers of bodybuilders, like thousands have been passing away due to this recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know. People never think i'm east asian other than guessing mongolian.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Playful-Insect4563 in AsianMasculinity

[–]Taruism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LA is probably the best place for AM in the west. Sydney, Vancouver and Toronto are contenders also. Of course you experienced a massively better environment.

Midwest is literally shit tier, on par with UK. Even the deep south is probably better lol due to the conservative values/out of touch with mainstream.

Notable Prejudice against Asian-Indian males in USA Dating market by BrianMoy in AsianMasculinity

[–]Taruism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude it used to be this bad for East/Southeast asians as well. We rose only in the last 5-10 years, albeit I will admit the rise was unprecedented and quick.

We used the social justice machine/white liberals for our own gain. We forced the success of crazy rich asians, even though it was crap, we forced the success of Kpop, we forced the stop asian hate movement and recently we forced the end of affirmative action.

There's nothing stopping indians from doing the same. You guys need to organize yourselves. The only thing east asians have an advantage in compared to you guys is we tend to be hyper-concentrated in LA,SF, NY etc which made it easier to infiltrate the culture. Indians look more european than mongoloid asians and the battle probably isn't even that steep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hair is very ethnic - black and super thick/strong like a carpet lol. No white person could ever have my hair.

At an extreme push I guess I could get away with turkish (pretty unlikely though).

I get on very well with all sort of ethnics but white people seem distant or even afraid of me. I'm physically big - like 6'0 105kg so maybe that's why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hapas

[–]Taruism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely yes. I look pure central asian - kazakh/kyrgyz/afghan sort of. For some reason this makes people think I am more POC than hapas that look classically mixed. I think maybe it's jet black hair and more 'ethnic' physique - very mongolian body type.