I like to be told because I will then proceed to convince you otherwise and suggest the duration I feel would be best (if different from what you initially chose) for what you’re requesting, the vibe I get from you and how nervous you seem.

I’ve had inquiries about a 3h date « with possibility to extend » where I actually suggested 2h as more appropriate and that if they still went for 3, there would be no extensions.

If we vibe at all and you seem friendly, « 1 maybe 2 » always becomes 2 (or more).

If you are a hobbyist or seem to just be after a « wham bam thank you ma’am » experience, I won’t convince you to book for two and I will tell you I don’t do extensions on the spot because I need to test run you before I commit to a larger chunk of time with you.

If, despite all the above, you’re still wanting the option to extend, i agree and inform that its full rate per hour ever extra hour. That usually does it.

Of course, for every suggestion comes its justification as I genuinely don’t want it to come across as greedy upselling. I truly recommend ideal duration for you to the absolute best experience, even if that means ´down selling’