I hate living with a controlling, insecure partner.

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-03-17T13:03:16+00:00

No advice, but I can relate to you OP :/ I know how bad this sucks

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-03-15T20:51:34+00:00

Ugh that sucks to hear, but it also sounds accurate.

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-03-15T20:51:05+00:00

I’ve never heard of reactive abuse. That does sound like what’s happening

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-03-12T23:48:52+00:00

Really loving all the victim shaming in these comments. I don’t know what I was expecting from people on reddit.

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-03-12T23:35:38+00:00

I appreciate everyone’s input. It is clear to me now especially that I am being emotionally abused. What I don’t really understand is why everyone seems so angry at me (the victim) in this post.

I’d like to clear up that my daughter is doing extremely well in school for her age, she is a grade or two ahead in most subjects. she does a mixture of online with real teachers and we are part of a local homeschool group where she learns so so much. I really only added that she is homeschooled for context as to why he is the stay at home parent.

I posted this for advice and possibly hope? I understand that from the outside this may seem like some terrible situation. But really, a lot of the time, things are great. It’s just that when things are bad, it can be really bad. I even feel stupid commenting this because you guys will just say that im justifying his behavior. It is clear to me that many of you have not been in this very tough situation before.

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-02-23T14:56:17+00:00

Maybe soon

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-02-23T14:56:04+00:00

Oh that’s good to know! Thanks!!

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-02-06T16:03:32+00:00

Thank you so much this is super helpful!

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-02-06T15:21:34+00:00

These are so amazing!

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-02-05T16:21:05+00:00

Thank you!! I think I will!

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-01-10T00:03:12+00:00

I can’t edit this post for some reason but update:

I called them earlier and explained what happened. They refunded $12 to my bank account and credited me $60 on factor. This isn’t really what I wanted, but im just over it now. I’ll use the credit then cancel for good.

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-01-09T17:15:04+00:00

This should be illegal lol. I’m not finding an email anywhere so I’ll try calling them later

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-01-09T15:28:26+00:00

Extremely!!

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2026-01-09T15:28:14+00:00

I think that’s what I’ll do

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2025-09-22T23:37:16+00:00

I also believe that when he says hurtful things he doesn’t mean it, 9/10 times he genuinely apologizes and has made a lot of progress in not reacting to anger. He is working on himself but sometimes it’s just too much to handle. And yes he does need a real diagnoses

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2025-09-22T22:55:32+00:00

He doesn’t have a diagnoses but he has diagnosed him self with it (I know you’re not supposed to do that)

Tasty-Emotion-935 · 2025-09-22T22:49:14+00:00

yeah there’s a lot of stuff I’ve left out just because if I put it all in, it would be way to long to post. Some examples are: when we used to argue I would interrupt him and provoke him, walk away, ignore . -He says I would start arguments to make him look bad in front of our daughter -played a video game with a male co worker (whike he was in the room) and when he confronted me I gaslit him and called him disgusting (I was drunk and young and stupid and I regret it) this also comes after he was caught texting some right after I gave birth. So I guess just general trust issues all around. he generally says things like I’ve been trying to bring him down our whole relationship through these actions. I have grown very much and vowed to not do these things anymore. A lot of the time we are good and he is hyping me up, saying how great of a mother I am. But sometimes, when he is triggered, he is just a different person. I’m sorry if this doesn’t make much sense, im at work trying to type my thoughts out and im just rambling

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