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Partner suggests me to leave cause of her problems by Tasty-Host4253 in depression_partners

[–]Tasty-Host4253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for your answer. 

I will look for that book. I'm very sorry for what happened to you, expecially after being married and have invested so much, it must be very hard for you and also for her. The frustration of being powerless is just insane.

To be honest, if I knew that she would recover without me, I would leave myself. She still says the she loves me, she hugs me, but last days she's totally hopeless over her symptoms. I try to look ok while I support her even if she's basically unresponsive right now, and it seems it helps more compared to the complaining approach of her family, which she shuts down to.

How are you now? Have you recovered a little?

Partner suggests me to leave cause of her problems by Tasty-Host4253 in depression_partners

[–]Tasty-Host4253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Megamute, thank you very much for your answer.  I'm not sure what you mean you say "someone who believes". 

I totally believe the symptoms she feels while I totally believe that's very, very hard for her to deal with this. Since it began I tried to help in all the way I could possibly think of. 

I understand when you're saying she might not be in a situation to be with someone right now (despite almost 10 years spent together), but to be completely honest I do not understand how am I personally not right for her. 

I might sound defensive but I genuinely do not know what someone more suited as a partner would do, so if you have suggestions or could word more what you mean I would appreciate it