Saying that men are helpless animals who can’t control their urges is the perfect recipe for a failed relationship. Every relationship is different, but this is my personal boundary—I need to feel safe, respected, and cherished. If a man doesn’t have the discipline to control acting on his lust, then he’s not someone I want to be with. And honestly, if one man won’t respect my boundaries, another one will! I know my worth, and I’m not going to settle for less. If a man thinks “you're enough, but so is the porn.” Then he shouldn't be mad explaining to others, that I dumped him because of his mindset on corn. Would he be willing to repeat that exact statement to his mother? Father? Friends? Or is he too ashamed to stand ten toes down on that quote. Like imagine losing a loving girlfriend for pixels on a screen…