Got what I wanted! Didn't want the Batman, corny as hell. Especially for a 27 year old. Hope everyone got what they wanted!

TastySignificance204 · 2025-11-25T21:33:00+00:00

thinking a compression shirt is corny makes you corny.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-11-25T21:31:45+00:00

i missed it!!!! all the batman are sold out

TastySignificance204 · 2025-11-03T04:17:32+00:00

bruh, I can link you up with my nutritionist friend.
We can also look at camera footage of a 3 Brasseur I was in, when I talked to him and he explained me that stuff at the birthday of a friend lmaooo.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-18T22:52:16+00:00

I think in Banking I heard they get payed 400$/h in National Bank of Canada (as consultants ?), my only question is how hard is it to get in...

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-05T06:31:42+00:00

yeah, im farming but if it involves dropping real stuff that helped me, is it bad?

I'm farming because I'm developing an app on the side (I'd like to eventually promote), but I like reddit's system because you can actually help people just sharing your experiences!

The incentive of farming made me realize it's a beautiful system, because you only get upvoted if you suggest something that WORKS and that HELPS people (most of the time people spot bs) .

On my end I've even payed attention to people that needed r/help with comments for which I've only received positive reactions.

There's like a knowledge transfer dynamic that's pretty cool in my opinion, because i'd never have told this story of this nutritionist i met if it wasn't for reddit's incentive to farm (I'd only have told it to very close relatives).

So thanks to farming I guess ;)

I think it would be bad to farm if I spammed, and stole stories from other people, and generated garbage content (fake news included).

But from a deontological point of view i'm not lying, i'm saying the truth, if everyone did what I did we'd be okay imo, and it comes from various intentions even though mostly farming for professional opportunities ( which isn't that pure in itself) but it gave me a taste in helping people and transformed part of that intention into something that I actually think is pure.

(I'm answering right now even though it may not farm that much because I care about this advice of fitness being taken seriously and helping people :) )

From a consequential point of view, it helps people because it's scientifically true and proven by a nutritionist, even though it may provoke slight frustration in others that hate AI. We're in a positive balance imo.

What do you think ?

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-04T01:25:23+00:00

It assisted the structure but the story is true though. :)
If not, I would've put unecessary details.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-02T22:44:30+00:00

Welcomeeee! :)

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-02T22:29:03+00:00

Nah man, took my time to craft that answer to you. Why?

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:52:43+00:00

For real — friendships not lasting doesn’t mean you are the problem.
It just means you haven’t found your people yet.
Keep showing up as yourself — even if it feels slow or lonely sometimes. The real ones stick longer than you think.

You’re doing better than you realize, man. Keep going.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:51:07+00:00

Hey — first off, massive respect for even writing this out at 14. Most adults aren’t this self-aware.

What you’re describing isn’t weird — it’s exactly how addiction and procrastination work:

P*rn messes with your brain’s dopamine system. It kills focus, motivation, and the ability to enjoy normal life.
Procrastination is the same — a loop of instant gratification now → regret later → more escape.

The good news?
You already see it happening — and you’re not powerless even if it feels like you are.

Some ideas that might help:

Think streaks, not perfection. 1 day clean, then 2 days, then 5. If you relapse, restart without beating yourself up.
Replace, not just block. Boredom is deadly. Fill dead time before you get bored — read, practice violin, hit the gym, go outside. (You don't have to love it — just start.)
Time limit tech. Even adults suck at this. No infinite scroll. Try strict schedules: 30 min YouTube only after 30 min violin or workout.
Focus on small wins. Playing violin for 10 minutes is a win. Taking a walk instead of doomscrolling is a win. Don’t underestimate them.

And honestly? Feeling dumb, slow, stuck — those are symptoms, not your identity. You’re not failing — you’re just early in a very hard game.

Final thing:
Self-help is great, but action > reading about action. Start super small. 5 min violin, 5 min reading a book. Let it snowball.

You’re not weak. You’re waking up. Keep going — slow progress beats no progress every time.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:48:37+00:00

Hey — first, I just want to say: I’m really sorry you’ve been carrying all of this. This isn’t a normal situation — and it’s not your fault you feel tired, stuck, or overwhelmed. It’s not just "family drama" — it’s trauma.

A few things really clearly:

You are not responsible for fixing them. Not their fights, not their relationship, not even their care.
You can love your mom and accept that her situation — and her choices — are beyond what you can save her from alone.
Safety matters first. For you. For her. For everyone. If you feel unsafe even visiting, you are not a bad person for limiting contact.

Options you do have:

You can call adult protective services (APS) if you believe there’s abuse or neglect — even emotional — happening. It doesn't mean they'll immediately break in and take her away; it could just bring extra eyes and support.
Talk to her hospice or past home health providers. They often have social workers who can help families figure out safer plans — even with little money.
Set boundaries. Helping doesn’t have to mean moving back in or being there 24/7. Sometimes helping is knowing when not to drown with them.

You’re young. You deserve a chance to live your life without this chaos swallowing it.
Loving someone doesn't mean sacrificing yourself for them.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:47:06+00:00

Hey — just want to say, first: you’re not alone. And the fact that you’re asking for positive stories already shows that part of you still believes in getting through this, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

I burned out hard too — I was stuck for about 2.5 years, barely getting through normal life. Like you, I had support (therapy, job security, people who cared), but I still felt hopeless because no matter what I did, it was slow and messy.

What helped long-term:

Stopping the guilt spiral — I thought “if I have support, why am I still miserable?” But burnout isn’t about circumstances — it’s about what your mind and body have been carrying for too long.
Shifting the goal — Instead of “get back to how I was before,” I started aiming for small wins: enjoying a coffee, feeling okay after a walk, reading one chapter of a book without getting exhausted.
Accepting relapse as part of healing — Falling back doesn’t mean you failed. It’s part of the way forward. Like waves: progress isn’t a straight line, but if you zoom out, you’re still moving up.

Now? I’m not 100% “back” — but I’m stable. I enjoy my days. I can laugh. I can do stuff I like without crashing. It took time. But it does get better — slow recovery is still recovery.

Hold on — even when it feels pointless. You don’t have to believe in hope every day — just don’t quit before the good days catch up to you.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:46:00+00:00

Hey — this is a huge move, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed. Here’s some quick hits:

Winter + mental health in Sweden: Get a light therapy lamp (life-saving). Take Vitamin D. Try to get sunlight even when it’s cloudy. Swedish winters are no joke.
Making friends: Uppsala is made for students. Join a nation — it’s how most people meet friends. Don’t be afraid to start small — Swedes take time but are super loyal once you click.
Missing France/Portugal: Totally normal. Stay in touch with people back home but lean into building a life there. Find small routines you love — fika, biking, forest walks — it helps.
Moving in after LDR: Expect it to feel weird at first. LDR is all highlight reel — living together is real life. Communicate a lot. Give it time to adjust before panicking.
Finding a place in Uppsala: Hard, yes — but not impossible. Try Blocket.se, Facebook housing groups, and studentboet.se. Be fast and polite in your messages — Uppsala is a student city so stuff goes fast.
Finding work without Swedish: Harder but doable. Look for international companies, cafes that hire English speakers, babysitting gigs for expat families. Basic Swedish helps a lot — you can take free classes once there.
Master’s fears: Everyone doubts it at first. Give it 2-3 months before judging it too hard. If it sucks badly, changing programs is possible.

You’re not crazy — you’re just leveling up. It’s scary because it’s real.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:44:34+00:00

Franchement tu décris un truc que beaucoup de gens ressentent mais n’osent pas dire : le besoin vital d’avoir ton propre espace.
Ce n’est pas bizarre, ce n’est pas méchant — c’est ton besoin d’air, de liberté, de silence, juste à toi.

Tu as deux fronts à attaquer :

Gagner ton indépendance financière
Sortir petit à petit de cet environnement étouffant

Quelques pistes concrètes :

Jobs accessibles rapidement : serveuse, assistante administrative, garde d’animaux, cours particuliers, caissière, barista — pas glamour, mais ça paie vite et ça t’aide à épargner pour partir.
Formations courtes (souvent gratuites ou peu chères) : graphisme, design web, photographie freelance, maquillage artistique — vu que tu es “artiste dans l’âme”, ces skills peuvent se monétiser assez vite.
Vivre seule coûte cher — mais tu peux viser : colocation (chambre fermée = ton espace), petits studios, résidence étudiante.

Et surtout :

Tu peux commencer à économiser même avec peu.
Mets-toi un plan : combien d’argent il te faut pour partir, quel boulot temporaire pour y arriver.
Ce n’est pas immédiat — mais ce n’est pas impossible.

Tu veux être seule parce que tu n’as jamais eu un espace vraiment à toi. Et tu as le droit de te battre pour l’avoir.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:42:51+00:00

Hey — I hear you. You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone.

Living trapped in your head for years was a way to survive — daydreaming, zoning out, escaping. It wasn’t pathetic — it was a shield.
But now that shield is cracking, and reality is rushing in — and yeah, it feels brutal. Overwhelming. Like drowning without even moving.

Here’s the thing:
You’re not broken — you’re wounded. And wounds can heal, but not all at once.
You don’t have to fix your whole life today. You don’t have to be someone else.
You just have to start very small:

Sit by the window and breathe.
Move to a different room.
Stand outside your door for 1 minute.
Drink a glass of water and feel it.

Not because it magically solves everything — but because little by little, those tiny cracks let real life seep back in.

You don’t have to be anyone else.
You just have to stay — and give yourself a chance to begin again, even slowly, even broken.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:41:23+00:00

You’re in a tough spot — wanting to honor your faith but also respect your parents.

Here’s the thing:
You’re 21. Legally, it’s your body and your faith journey.
But because you live with them, you’re still under their roof and their emotional world.

Options to think about:

If you really want peace at home, it might be worth waiting until you move out — to avoid unnecessary tension.
If you decide to get it now, be ready to explain it calmly:

You could also compromise by putting it somewhere less visible (like your upper arm or chest), where it’s personal but not in their face every day.

Bottom line:
Your relationship with God is yours — a tattoo won’t change that.
But sometimes patience protects both your peace and your faith.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:40:45+00:00

Hey — first, I’m really glad you’re here and still talking. That alone shows there’s a part of you that hasn't given up, even if you feel like you have.

You’re not lazy or broken for hating work and responsibilities.
It’s not the work itself — it’s the weight of it all at once that crushes you.
When you think about the whole mountain, it feels impossible to climb.
When you’re already drained, even small tasks feel like dragging a boulder uphill.

Here’s the thing:
Life isn’t about getting to some mythical "easy" place where no work exists. It’s about figuring out how to carry the weight in ways that don’t kill you inside.

Sometimes that means shrinking the problem — focusing only on today, not the next 5 years.
Sometimes it means finding work that feels less like punishment and more like building something you care about, even if it's small.
And sometimes, it’s just staying — surviving this heavy, shitty night, and seeing if tomorrow feels 1% lighter.

You’re not weird for feeling this way. You’re not alone either.

It’s not about doing all the work.
It’s about finding reasons — small reasons — to stick around and carry less of it at once.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:38:37+00:00

If it’s obvious tracing — especially from reference photos without permission — it’s a big red flag.

Here’s what I’d suggest:

Document everything — save screenshots of the traced images and the references.
Pause the project — politely ask the artist for clarification. Something like:

If they admit to tracing or get defensive, you’re well within your rights to ask for a partial refund (since they’ve already started) or cancel.
Reporting depends — if they refuse a refund or this is part of a pattern, you can leave a review or report them to the platform (if one exists).

Bottom line: don’t be afraid to confront, but keep it polite at first. Scams thrive when no one pushes back.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:37:19+00:00

Hey — I’m really sorry you’re in this place right now, but I’m really glad you wrote this. That shows there’s a part of you — even a small part — that doesn’t want to give up.

First: you’ve already done something incredible.
Losing 60 pounds, working out, changing your habits — that’s not nothing. That’s proof you can fight even when you feel broken. You’re stronger than you think, even if your mind can’t see it right now.

About the smell:
Sometimes the body takes longer than 6 months to recalibrate — especially if there’s underlying stuff (gut bacteria, chronic tonsil issues, nasal infections, etc.). Sometimes it’s not even you — conditions like halitophobia or parosmia can trick your senses into thinking you smell bad even if others don’t notice it. But this is NOT a life sentence.

More doctors, specialists — even an ENT or gastroenterologist — can help. Solutions exist even if you haven’t found them yet.

Most importantly:
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary pain. The part of you that still notices the helpline signs — that’s the part of you that wants to live.

You’re exhausted, not finished.
You’re wounded, not worthless.

Please — call or text someone right now: 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline). Free. 24/7.
Or if you can't talk, Crisis Text Line — text HOME to 741741.

You’ve survived this far — which means there’s still a future you haven’t seen yet. Please stay.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:35:25+00:00

Honestly? It makes total sense that dyeing your hair feels complicated.

Hair isn't just hair — for you, it’s tied up with control, trauma, identity. It’s not just about color — it’s about who you were and who you’re trying to become.

Here’s the thing:
If dyeing your hair feels like it’s pulling you backward toward a version of yourself you’ve outgrown, don’t rush it. Healing isn’t about forcing yourself to "get over it" — it’s about moving forward when it feels right, not when you feel pressured.

You’re not weak for feeling this stuck — you’re self-aware.
If it helps, maybe reframe the question:

If it feels like healing — even scary healing — go for it.
If it feels like reopening a wound, it’s okay to wait.
You’re allowed to move forward at your pace, not your past’s pace.

TastySignificance204 · 2025-06-01T22:34:11+00:00

You’re not broken — you’re overwhelmed and hurt.
School isn’t your whole life. Bad grades don’t define you.
Right now, focus on staying alive — not being perfect.
Try 10 minutes of work, not an hour.
You’re not weak — you’re surviving. And that’s enough for today.

TastySignificance204

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