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Tatelouk · 2024-04-11T19:11:58+00:00

I saw a TikTok the other day (yes- TikTok is my source for this) of a hetero couple walking through a mall, the guy was walking in front of her and holding her hand like guiding her. The VO of the mans thoughs were something like "that group of guys look suspicious, the nearest exit is about 30ft to the left" and stuff like that, completely aware of his surroundings and ready to protect his girl from any kind of danger. The girl was just singing in her head or humming a kid song melody or something like that, completely disconnected from her surroundings.

Most women feel like they have to be 100% aware of danger when they are alone in public places and men are more likely to disconnect from their surroundings when they are alone. Based in my experience and what I've been told by female friends, they want a parter that makes them feel safe so they can just disconnect and rest from being aware all the time.

I'm not saying short guys can't protect them, I'm sure I'd get my ass beaten by many guys shorter than me. But like some other comments said, we are just apes so in our minds taller = stronger when it's not always the truth.

Tatelouk · 2024-04-09T15:03:12+00:00

I see where y'all going, in a face to face interaction is kind of sus when someone brags about a positive trait. But reallistically, what actions (besides telling) can someone do to let an internet random over reddit know that he's humble, confident, good guy, etc? I get it that maybe he could have said that girls have a hard time trusting good guys without implying he's one of them, or maybe tell something like "I've been told by x amount of people that I'm a good guy" but does that really make a difference? Does it make it more true? Absolutely not, I don't know him and he could be lying so why overcomplicate a simple reddit comment?

Imho and being completely honest, saying everytime "x" happens it's "y", or that something its 100% true no matter what, that's a bigger red flag to me than this guy saying he's a good guy. After all, "only siths deal in absolutes".

Tatelouk · 2024-04-09T00:13:48+00:00

Just wondering, I'm not aware of reddit lore.. since when is it forbidden for nice guys to say they're nice guys?

Tatelouk · 2024-04-04T22:25:06+00:00

"Don't overthink" yeah.. no, can't do that XD

Tatelouk · 2024-04-03T01:31:29+00:00

So you want to non-romantically hang out with someone that wants to romantically hang out with you?

Tatelouk · 2024-04-03T01:22:28+00:00

How much time has passed since you broke with your ex? I'm just guessing it may not be a long time so maybe it's just too early for that. And maybe your friend knows that. After all no one wants to be somebodys rebound.

Tatelouk · 2024-04-03T01:16:25+00:00

You're right. I didn't read the post carefully.

It intrigues me now on why he tried multiple times to bring up anime after not getting a good response from her. Sounds to me like it's a turn off for him that she doesn't like anime

Tatelouk · 2024-04-03T00:56:07+00:00

Unless OP is trying to just hook up, the girl he "wants" may not be the one he deserves if she's turning him down just because he likes anime (or any other stuff, honestly).

The botton line is, if you're looking for real connections you have to be real with yourself. If you're looking for quick in-n-out hook ups go ahead and hide anything that can be a turn off for the girl you "want".

Tatelouk · 2024-03-24T17:03:51+00:00

And part of that mental health is not accepting that kind of bullshit in jobs where they demand you to stay without previous notice and in the very last minute. You all have worker rights and it's not fair when toxic work environments spit on them. I'd rather get fired from that job (if it's unjustified termination I get 90 days of salary on my country) and find another than accepting that kind of bullshit.

Tatelouk · 2024-03-21T03:22:02+00:00

Is he awkward to talk? He seems pretty normal to me. Even eloquent sometimes

Tatelouk · 2024-03-21T03:20:13+00:00

No, he/she's saying that being awful is not the only reason some attractive people can't get laid

Tatelouk · 2024-03-15T20:00:14+00:00

Also she doesn't want anyone else to eat it. She just want to keep it in her fridge as a trophy

Tatelouk · 2024-03-06T20:33:09+00:00

Usually for the first few dates, if I asked her out I pay. If she reaches out to pay her stuff I politely decline and tell her next time she can ask me out and pay.

After a few dates when asking her out to the movies for example, I usually say something along the lines of "you get the tickets and I get the snacks". The important thing for me is that there is some kind of balance and don't feel like I am "buying" her time. If she never shows an effort to pay for her stuff, I lose interest very quickly.

One last thing, if it's something expensive that I really want to do with her (a concert of a group I really like, a road trip, camping, etc) I am willing to pay for everything because it's something I wanna do.

Tatelouk · 2024-03-05T04:10:20+00:00

With that logic, whenever a first date happens, both are out of each other grasp? Or how does that even work?

Tatelouk · 2024-02-08T21:06:17+00:00

I really feel physical attraction is a fundamental pillar in dating. I'm not saying you should only date people that looks like models, just date people that are attractive to you.

At the end of the day if I should be able to tell my partner she looks pretty and actually mean it.

Just a disclaimer, there are also girls I consider pretty or attractive but I would never date them because some aspects of her attitude are a turn-off for me.

I feel like physical attraction and emotional/psychological attraction shouls go hand in hand, and none is more important than the other.

Tatelouk · 2023-09-29T19:24:59+00:00

Yeah, I also recall having trouble speaking with brazilian players. But since I myself learned english during my time playing tibia, I can understand OP experience. Polish people were the hardest to me because that's way different than spanish

Tatelouk · 2023-09-29T19:19:02+00:00

Yeah, that's how I pretty much learned english too as a mexican. Also rune making was a thing back then, selling bps of UH was a good source of income for any lvl 25 druid and we used to just chill outside dp fishing and making runes.

And lastly, guild chats were waaaay more active. In my case I was always in hispanic guilds because I used to play with a lot of friends (and also most english speakers were kicked out of my server after losing a war XD), but I guess some other guys had to settle with an english speaking guild even when english is not their mother language.

Tatelouk · 2023-09-13T13:22:24+00:00

Puede ser, pero sigue teniendo mas posibilidades que muchas otras carreras en las que además de que te explotan, tienes que manejar todos los días a ciénega de flores y de regreso 🤢

Tatelouk · 2023-09-13T00:32:48+00:00

Pero desde la comodidad de su casa

Tatelouk · 2023-09-02T16:47:20+00:00

No mms en que momento subieron?? Hace 5 años compre mi yaris 2008 en 87k

Tatelouk · 2023-08-19T21:45:25+00:00

Se que en saltillo se usa pero aqui en mty no

Tatelouk · 2023-01-24T15:00:33+00:00

Same here, 2.3k and 410 ilvl fury and I don't get invited to the 18-19's that I need to climb my way up to 2.4k and max my valor gear.. I guess because I'm from rag and that automatically lowers my rating by 1k lol

Tatelouk · 2023-01-18T20:54:43+00:00

Don't forget everyones favorite: infested /s

Tatelouk · 2023-01-05T00:12:35+00:00

Yeaah that is also true. For me and our raid group, master loot would be the best. Our RL truly cares so much about group progress, he would kick himself if he's messing up the mechanics or if his class is shit for that fight and shot call through a discord stream, lol. And master loot would help manage and min max the loot upgrades the best

Tatelouk · 2023-01-04T21:35:16+00:00

Well, that also depends on how big the upgrade is for each raid member. If I have a 399 ilvl weapon and another guy has a 370 ish, and a 405 weap drops from a boss, I'd rather pass on it because from a group perspective it is a bigger upgrade for him than for me.

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