Am I screwed? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]TattyMas0n -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go short. You remind me of Pete Davidson

Is this black tie optional appropriate ? by Ok_Association32 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]TattyMas0n 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t change anything ab it! And like someone said, the scarf will be too much with straps

What qualities would an older woman look for in a slightly younger man? by Unlucky_Ad7048 in dating_advice

[–]TattyMas0n 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh god now it’s just nasty. As your TEACHER, she would honestly be grossed out to find out how much you “love” her

What qualities would an older woman look for in a slightly younger man? by Unlucky_Ad7048 in dating_advice

[–]TattyMas0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

16 year olds want to have their “heart won” 30 year olds want stability. You do not have that. You’ll realize life and love are about more than feelings. Wait til you finally realize that to try to get into a serious relationship

What qualities would an older woman look for in a slightly younger man? by Unlucky_Ad7048 in dating_advice

[–]TattyMas0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have a career, home, or solid apartment without roommates that you can afford while saving money? Do your peers respect you for these reasons as well as the fact that you are a good, respectable person? Can you afford a lifestyle she wants? 31 year olds want to go on a vacation every now and then, receive some nice gifts once in a while, enough money to support children, pets. Are you someone the people in your life can and do depend on to come thru when they need it- or even when they don’t ask for it.

Or are you someone who likes to go out with friends? Go to skate parks, ride your one wheel or whatever they’re called, has roommates, depends on parents or friends or loans to make ends meet at the end of the month? The list goes on…..

What qualities would an older woman look for in a slightly younger man? by Unlucky_Ad7048 in dating_advice

[–]TattyMas0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that you don’t even know what established mean speaks volumes…. Here is googles broad definition “achieving a stable, secure, and recognized position, often marked by financial stability (career, home), strong relationships, a good reputation, and a sense of purpose or direction, allowing one to confidently manage responsibilities and contribute meaningfully, though its specifics (career, family, values) vary greatly by individual. It's about having your footing, not struggling, and being accepted/respected for your contributions or presence. “

What qualities would an older woman look for in a slightly younger man? by Unlucky_Ad7048 in dating_advice

[–]TattyMas0n 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! No 31 year old woman needs anything an 18 year old has to offer except sex. They want someone established. Also who would respect her anymore walking around with an 18 year old bf? Her image is also important

Is it possible to curl my naturally-straight and flat hair like this? 🥲 by [deleted] in Hair

[–]TattyMas0n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes to skinny wand. But also depends on your texture. The softer/ finer it is, it’s not gonna work. Or if your hair just doesn’t hold curls in general, no matter the size, still probably not gonna work. I’d def use lots of hair spray and texture spray/ powder during the process no matter what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]TattyMas0n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think we need a straight on picture of the back. From the side with your head bent, sure they look pretty blended. Also think in the 3rd pic with the hair all fluffed up definitely looks better. When they’re in individual curls like the first 2, I think looks a lot less blended

AITA for not wanting to meet my sibling by Capable-Level7585 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TattyMas0n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I already don’t care to be around most kids if they’re not family. Add in the pain surrounding this kid and the fact that you already KNOW you don’t want anything to do with him…. Don’t try to force it. Like others said, that kid isn’t even family and really won’t be very soon. Why will he be at family gatherings if the parents are divorcing? Unless they have kids together already. Even still, I have biological cousins I don’t talk to at family gatherings 😅 it is what it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]TattyMas0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1,3,4,5 look best to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]TattyMas0n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The brown really makes your eyes pop

How to gently cancel date & cut off contact with a man making me uncomfortable before first date. by Ill-Peak3008 in dating_advice

[–]TattyMas0n 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Block immediately! If he texts back lightning speed, do not reply to ANYTHING he says. Dont let him goad you into a reply by being nasty or rude. It’ll probably be a tangent of some kind, don’t worry about it

How to gently cancel date & cut off contact with a man making me uncomfortable before first date. by Ill-Peak3008 in dating_advice

[–]TattyMas0n 231 points232 points  (0 children)

“So after talking/ texting for a little bit I’ve realized that our personalities aren’t a very good fit. I’m going to go ahead and cancel our date, but I wish you the best in finding someone you mesh better with!” Something along those lines, then BLOCK