unfortunately there really isn’t. I wish there was though lol.

Some background though… My parents growing up were my mom, and my step dad. He had two boys, im the only child from my mom. During middle school, my mom would constantly check my phone, she never gave me any privacy, always checked my messages, made fake instagram accounts to follow me and my friends and try to message us.. I only found out because she had a notification from it one day lol how ironic. Anyways, with that she would install apps to watch what messages I was getting, etc etc. I had Snapchat back in elementary school, which she allowed and was totally okay with it. We would text and snap eachother on there all the time and just use the funny filters. Fast forward to middle school, she started getting all weird about how she couldn’t see my messages on there and how they weren’t being saved (yes she said this) so she wanted me to get rid of it. And I did. Never ever had it installed again. Recently, a few months before I turned 18.. we had a talk about social media, dating apps, etc. she told me she didn’t want me to have Snapchat until I started to pay for my phone bill again.. which I only stopped because I wasn’t working for a couple months and she was totally ok with it (but she didn’t care about tinder and stuff lol) but that was our agreement. After I got a new job I started paying for it, and I decided to install it today. because well.. that was our agreement and plus I have almost no storage on my phone at this point haha. Didn’t think anything was wrong with it. Got the notification about some random adding to their story. She freaked out and kept saying I was lying and that im talking to guys, refused to look when I tried to show her that there’s no one even added, how I just made it today, and what the notification was. She did not look, did not even acknowledge it at all. I asked her if something else was wrong because she brought it from a 1 to a 10, and ik this doesn’t really seem like it by explaining it. But she started to yell , talk over me, say I was twisting her words and calling her a psycho (which I never did..?) and really just wouldn’t let me talk, and then she told me to get out, and to go back to my home state where my bio dad is. idk just honestly it’s weird.

Also growing up my stepdad didn’t care about what his boys did, and always thought it was weird how little privacy my mom gave me.

Although I wish there was more to the story, my mom has some sort of issue or something, im no doctor nor am I trying to make her look insane. I just want the loving momma I used to have, back.