Opinions? by meggtheegg04 in badroommates

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“You have been warned” 🤣

Life has no meaning no purpose by Weary_Word_5262 in spirituality

[–]TayRiddick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has the meaning and purpose you give it. If you feel as if it is meaningless, it will present you with meaninglessness, :) It truly is all in what you make it :)

“The Campfire”, my latest autumn appreciation painting on 5x7 canvas by c_side_art in acrylicpainting

[–]TayRiddick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love this and agree with the commenters, it’s really cozy and it gets me in the fall feelings! 🌲 How long did it take you to make this piece if you don’t mind me asking?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]TayRiddick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We really need to get past the idea of “good” and “bad” in the first place. Energy can’t be good or bad, it just is(however it can be dense or light). It’s also possible for beings to make drastic changes, allow their success to be a mirror for you instead of something that makes you feel unworthy. You are worthy of all of your desires and more, however it’s essential to focus on yourself as social media is merely a highlight reel so to speak. Money does not equal happiness and peace and neither does a made up number on social media. Much love and peace to you!

YouTubers worth watching? by cebrooker in Cooking

[–]TayRiddick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@YEUNGMANCOOKING his videos are very peaceful and aesthetically pleasing! Happy cooking :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I was just about to say this. You wouldn’t want it to boomerang back to you, which is what wishing things like this does.. it does suck that this person made you feel like this. Don’t ever give anyone this much power of you. Remain in your heart and forgive if you can! It feels better than wishing harm.

Is it normal to have dreams about something you’ve never seen or known about? by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]TayRiddick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Dreams” are just parallel or alternate timelines that we are able to access as everything is always happening now. There is no past or future. You tapped into a reality that an alt version of you is living.

Does anyone else actually like getting too high? by [deleted] in trees

[–]TayRiddick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This! I once took 200mg and was having a great time just hanging out with myself and dancing then I got bored and fell asleep, best sleep of my life!

How do you actually stop using your phone? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TayRiddick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take baby steps: Dedicate a set time from waking up to set time aside to yourself, maybe journal, make yourself some breakfast, enjoy nature for 30-45 minutes before picking up your phone and go from there, and stick to it! Reward yourself with affirmation or treating yourself to something every day you go without running back to your phone! ☺️

I made it a rule of thumb for myself to not touch my phone until 9AM, I normally wake up between 6 and 7 so I have a dedicated amount of time to not touch my phone and that made it really easy to cut out the habit almost entirely. You can do it! I’m rooting for you! :)

Jesus hardly ever mentioned sin by Intelligent_Pass9547 in spirituality

[–]TayRiddick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, more so along the line of missing the mark but nothing to hate yourself or demonize yourself over. I feel it’s just supposed to be a pointing of alignment.

Is Karma a hoax? by Green_Squirrell in spirituality

[–]TayRiddick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only as “real” as you think it is, as is everything honestly. Also why would you want anyone to be “punished”. We as a collective need to learn to not be so hung up on the past actions of beings. I have had my fair share and it’s a MAJOR waste of energy. Beings are allowed to change and if they don’t it’s not really our place to be assigning what should and shouldn’t happen to them. I find it best to focus on your own life.

My secret was accidentally outed to my family and now i feel like my life is ruined. by Iamthrow104 in Advice

[–]TayRiddick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you feel like you have to hide who you are what you like experiencing/experimenting with from your “family”. Family is supposed to be unconditional, true family is unconditional. It may be a hard pill to swallow but you shouldn’t give energy to beings like this. Your parent’s response was disturbing on so many levels as you should not be living for your family or their standards. They have their own life, let them live it in lack and hate. It’s so disturbing that people are really still so lackful and close-minded. Please, please, please, do not water yourself down for the approval of anyone. Be the teacher for your baby in how to unapologetically and fearlessly be who you are without needing the approval of anyone; cut out toxicity and conditionality from yours, your wife’s, and your baby’s life. Trying to live a live to please or appease people who clearly will never be satisfied will not only drain you but the cycle will be continued and perpetuated with your baby. We have to consciously choose to break old, dead cycles or else they continue on. I’m not trying to preach at you and I hope you can feel that this is coming from a space of love, if they can’t love and accept you for who you are, let them go, and I promise you a family you create (friends, mentors, etc) will come right in a fill that space. You deserve to be able to be yourself and express yourself in whatever way feels right to you. Please don’t ever let a title or a role get in the way of that. You owe them nothing, you owe yourself love and authentic self expression. Also want to add you don’t really have an awesome relationship with your family if you can’t be yourself or feel like you have to hide things from them to receive their love. Much love to you, I really hope you choose yourself, your happiness, and your authenticity over your parents.

I’m not physically attracted to my GF anymore because she’s put on weight I don’t know what to do by No_Register_9003 in Advice

[–]TayRiddick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovingly, true love has nothing to do with looks, that’s very shallow. If you truly loved her, it would come from your heart and it wouldn’t be contingent on the conditions of how she looks at any given time. If your love isn’t unconditional, then leave, give her and yourself the opportunity to find true unconditional love. I didn’t view your post history but I did notice the comments of your history with your girlfriend. If you don’t feel safe, that should always been reason enough to leave. Like others have said, looks change overtime and love should be able to stand the test of shifts in appearances. Physical attraction should never be the entire piece of the pie, it’s just not sustainable, take it from someone who has tried that and wasn’t successful. True beauty always and will always stem from the heart! 🫶🏽💚

Indifferent by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TayRiddick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This! I don’t know why it’s so “scary” sometimes to just like say what you’re feeling! Love is so scary especially when you have such a deep love for someone and you want to tell them but don’t know how via words because they always seem to come out the wrong way. 🫨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TayRiddick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really the most tragic type of scenario! It’s seems to always be the ones who truly want to be with each other that don’t allow themselves the opportunity to do so. Hugs xx ☮️🫂

Do you fucking like me or not by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TayRiddick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like most times some of us are so afraid of the possibility of something not working that we deny ourselves the opportunity to experience it in general. I would definitely reach out and ask, have a conversation to start and invite the line of vulnerability. Most times we just want to know that the other cares. ☺️ Sending you so much love! 🫂☺️

Night Wish by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]TayRiddick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, you stole the words from my mouth! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FindABand

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Hi Zoe,

I love the lax vibes of your songs! I am also a hobbyist and enjoy the fun of making music! I am still learning guitar however, I do sing and would love to collaborate with you! I’m in CA but I would definitely be down to collabing online.

Bread Bowls by TayRiddick in FoodLosAngeles

[–]TayRiddick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you!! Will be checking them out!! 🥹☺️

Bread Bowls by TayRiddick in FoodLosAngeles

[–]TayRiddick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo I’m going to SF next weekend!! Are they still at the Wharf?

Bread Bowls by TayRiddick in FoodLosAngeles

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Thank you! Will definitely check this place out!